My boyfriend of 11 months was lounging around my apartment.
He said that he was searching the internet because he was bored.
I was looking at the history button on the internet explorer and found that he was searching his ex-girlfriend from high school, plus my name, and a bunch of other people (guys) from his life.
I feel hurt. Should I worry? Should I bring it up to him? What should I do? I love him and he loves me.
2006-09-21 12:58:34 · 26 answers · asked by hope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably no big deal. Aren't you ever curious about your old boyfriends? Ask him why he was looking up his old girlfriend and tell him you the answer the next day and that you want the truth whether you will like it or not. Don't back him into a corner with an on the spot demand for an explanation. If you don't like the answer, then find a boyfriend that you trust.
2006-09-21 13:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by OU812 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should have enough trust to not be going through the search button. You have no excuse for that.
Secondly, he was probably just curious because at one point had feelings for her and wanted to see how she was now.
I don't see it as anything to worry about if you really trust and love your boyfriend, don't be paranoid, believe in your relationship and don't accuse.
2006-09-21 13:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say don't worry too much about it. Haven't you looked up any of your exes to see what they were up to on myspace or anything? I always google like everyone I know just to see what pops up with their name. I guess maybe you could bring it up jokingly and see how he reacts but if he was looking up a bunch of people he knows I really wouldn't worry too much about it.
2006-09-21 13:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Monika S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are ok, do not worry..
He is just curious to learn about what has becoe of people he knew in school ...
this is normal, I do the same thing, even more often the older I get...
You both love each other and are faithfull, he just wants to remember his past and reflect on the future...
2006-09-21 13:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a million. State your gender: b. woman 2. State your grade: b. Sophomore 3. have you ever been in a dating? a. specific 4. Are you at present in a dating? b. No 5. How long replaced into your longest dating? a. a pair of days 6. How short replaced into your shortest dating? a. a pair of days 7. Are you much less bodily fascinated in human beings once you get to be attentive to them? a. specific, that often occurs b. in specific situations no longer continuously 8. Is a text cloth message a suitable thank you to ask somebody out? b. No, it extremely is extra constructive for the guy to ask in person 9. How long did you wait/could you wait to tell your companion which you like them? b. a million-3 months 10. have you ever regretted being with a prior better half? c. No, no regrets 11. could you cheat on somebody in the event that they did no longer be attentive to? b. No, i does no longer like it if somebody did it to me 12. have you ever been cheated on? b. No, in no way 13. could you forgive somebody who cheated on you? b. specific if I enjoyed him/her that lots 14. Do you believe interior here assertion: as quickly as a cheater continuously a cheater? b. No, human beings can replace 15. could you date somebody older or youthful than you? c. Age would not depend as long as I even have emotions for the guy sixteen. could you date somebody from a various race? c. I have not any selection 17. could you date somebody purely considering you felt sorry for him/her? b. No, it is incorrect 18. what's the main serious element on your better half to have? c. humorousness 19. Do you believe in love at first sight? a. specific, I even have experienced it 20. Which superb describes your view of love? a. It’s all that concerns 21. could you ever kiss on the 1st date? b. specific, if the synthetic the pass 22. in the journey that your human beings and better half didn’t get alongside and that they made you go with over them who could you go with? d. Neither in the event that they are making me go with than they do no longer look to be well worth it 23. could you extremely be unhappy in a dating or unhappy single? b. unhappy single 24. could you attempt to evade being seen with your better half? b. No 25. what kind of relationships do you prefer? a. intense relationships
2016-10-17 10:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry at this stage - he wasnt just searching her - he was searching for you as well and also other people he knew - maybe he was just curious to see what she did with her life - I did this as well and there my old life but I was still curious as to where life took people.
2006-09-21 13:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by kinnoishere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry. If it was just his EX yes, but it looks like he was just really board, and checking out the people in his life.
2006-09-21 13:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to worry about. The past is the past. I would not mention this to him. Don't we all wonder about some old friends once in awhile :)
2006-09-21 13:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to trust your boyfriend. Snooping on his computer is not a sign of trust.
Does he go snooping around your private matters?
2006-09-21 13:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Soy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just looking up the past. And why are you looking up his history?
2006-09-21 13:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Edward J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋