Seriously... me and this gurl have been doign really well and then out of nowhere literatly she a different person... i think that she is playin games and i want to win her heart.. i cant stop thinking bout her its driving me crazy... whats the best way to beat her at her own game??
2006-09-21 12:45:28 · 7 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Refuse to play. Mind games in a relationship are a sign of immaturity.
She may see that you are turned off by her games and grow up a little.
However, if she finds another player, you know then that you can do better than her.
2006-09-21 12:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this alot.
It is often hard to figure females out so beating at their own game is next to impossible. The best way to deal with this is to talk to her about the change. If she is honest and you are satisfied with the answer then you will be happy together. If you are not content with the answer or she responds negatively then do what she is doing to you. Sometimes for someone to see their wrong doing they have to be shown what they are doing to you. Similar to role playing. I hope I have helped you out. Just remember honesty and communication will build a strong relationship.
2006-09-21 12:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dave L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude,
I'm a 27 year old guy, I've had like almost every girl that i have liked play a game with me, I've had one played on me just like the way you drescribed above.
How much you wanna bet she has ran into some other loser and she gave him her # or something like that.
either that or you did something that she found as a turnoff.
here's what you do, Go up to her and say "why you been like this lately, I really wnat to hang out with you but you've been acting diffferent lately, I really care about you and i want to hang out with you"
If this doesn't work, THen I'd move onto the next girl, Don't worry dude there's plenty of fish in the sea
2006-09-21 12:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it. Play her game. She probably knows she has you. You need to just be yourself and be scarce sometimes. GO have fun with your boys ever once in a while and don't always be available when she calls. Just be yourself and not clingy. You can't really win anyone over, if she likes you, she'll be there.
2006-09-21 12:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW thats odd try playing her game see what happens
2006-09-21 12:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-21 12:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act really friendly and be nice to her or act same way she is acting.
2006-09-21 12:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by coolkenny45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋