Ok, I have been attracted to a friend of mine for around 2 years but we were both in relationships. Well now my current relationship is ending and his may already be ended (he doesn't mention her anymore). Anyway, he is very shy and usually I am not but we work together so I am afraid to say anything. I really want to be with this man. Another problem is he has never been married and I have had 2 failed marriages. Help.
2006-09-21 12:43:22 · 18 answers · asked by soulmatedp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely approach him - nothing ventured, nothing gained.
He is probably not aware that you are interested in him, and you need to change that.
Ask him if he fancies taking you out for a drink or a meal, as you would like to get to know him better.
Good luck - I hope it works out
2006-09-21 12:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 failed marriages? As a Divorcee, I can sympathize! Very simply, GRAB HIM, look him STRAIGHT IN THE EYES, and with all the SERIOUS PASSION you can muster, tell him, "I'm under the gun here babe! "Three strikes and you're out!" and all that! NO MORE FAILURE for me in love! As one of your DEVOTED FELLOW EMPLOYEES, I have to tell you honestly, I have the hots for you! And we need to have a GOOD WORKING ENVIRONMENT! So let's take this thing of "work with me" to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL! How about dinner together this Friday after work! WE NEED TO TALK DARLIN'!" Then FREAK HIM RIGHT OUT OF HIS SHOES, and give him THE MOST LOVING AND PASSIONATE KISS you've EVER given a man! I THINK he just MIGHT get the message!
2006-09-21 14:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first get the scoop on this relationship that he may or may not be in anymore... Then if he's free, then go for it as long as you know that you have no more feelings or attatchments to this person that you're ending it with... If everything's clear, I would totally go for it!
2006-09-21 12:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by thewomanbehindtheman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Forget all the past just focus on now. You are a female he is a male so go with that. "Don't regret things now that you were afraid to do then." So if u can live with yourself if you don't let him know then so be it. But in my oppinion let him know and see what happens.
Good luck.
2006-09-21 13:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dave L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
failed marriages does not matter you should always try again, hint around to the guy about dating him. hopefully i could be in a situation like that, it would make things a little interesting especially if i knew that you was attracted
2006-09-21 12:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by oraplepurnge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
authentic tale.... i grew to become into on myspace finding to make pals the place I stay, and that i stumbled on a %of a guy i grew to become into super attracted to (i grew to become into already with somebody, yet he grew to become into violent and controlling) so anyhow I sent him a message and he replied, we talked for greater or less 2 months until eventually I informed HIM i wished to work out him in person reason i grew to become into that attracted to him, so he got here to visit (bf grew to become into out of city) and it grew to become into the merely right time I ever had with a entire stranger...we at the instant are livng jointly and its the merely right..i did each and every of the artwork. outdated bf is a component if the previous!!!
2016-12-15 12:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it....but do it very slowly. You don't want to scare him into thinking you want marriage and the whole nine yards just yet.
2006-09-21 12:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go right up to him and say do u want to go out his Saturday night and if he says yes ull know u did something right and if he says no hopefully u will have learned something from this experience go get em tiger
2006-09-21 12:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Life is too short to wonder if about anything.
2006-09-21 12:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Scott C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should give hime a chance. But you won't know how he feels if you don't be the aggesser.
2006-09-21 12:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Badass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋