2006-09-21 12:41:46 · 28 answers · asked by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Other people may think it's cool, or that I'm cool having a stalker. But myself, it makes me scared. It isn't cool at all.
Some stalkers can get really bad, and become abusive, and make your life hell. So no, I don't think it's at all a nice thing.
I think you may mean it's cool when someone is following you around like a love sick puppy, and don't actually mean stalking.
Stalking is a harsh word.
2006-09-21 12:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by 3 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I used to have an internet stalker. It didn't make me scared or cool, just annoyed and I had to take some measures to protect my computer even better than before, because I knew he was the type who'd try to hack into it or send me viruses because he was obsessed with trying to prove that his misconceptions about me were true (he insisted I'm someone else and stalked the other person too, somehow still insisting we were the same person).
Oh, and I had a stalker for one day last year. That was kind of funny though, not scary at all. It was a young guy, a Korean tourist who I guess hadn't seen many blondes in his life, because he followed me for a few hours and finally got the courage to ask for a photo with me. It was a little weird, but kind of funny. It was just for one day, so it wasn't too bad and he didn't seem scary, so I never feared my safety.
2006-09-22 02:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by undir 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Had 2 serious stalkers in my life and Im only 22-one in high school whom was a grown man, married, and a police officer. The other in college a random temp at my campus bookstore, xcon and had a freaky gash across his throat as if someone has tried to slit his throat. It is definatly scary and it doesn't make you cool. People think that being considered "attractive" is a great all the time but sometime its not :(
2006-09-22 08:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by GiGi29125 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Different people will see this differently. For some, the first time they being stalked, it cud get as freaky but after a while they might get used to it. However, for the others being stalked could be somekind of a self-esteem booster as it indirectly gives them idea of being watch and "admire".
But either ways, for me, it all depends on the extreme level of the stalker. If i received 3 dozens roses every morning, that would something delightful, won't it? But if i constantly open my door and get Good Morning wishes from a dead chicken....that would be something else!!
2006-09-21 21:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine Ird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
. . . I've got one on here with a double-identity, (male lawyer/police woman) - really funny especially the e-mails and Answers in Bulgarian, so I guess it's cool to have a transsexual-schizophrenic as a stalker . . .
2006-09-23 06:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Astra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cool by far! Think about how interesting or whatever you have to be to be stalked. I mean someone has to have some kind of crazy obsession with you. Or take for example someone always being watched from the gov like in the movie Enemy of the State how cool would that be?
2006-09-21 19:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Double Bubble 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I had a stalker for a year, i didntnt know him he was a total head ****, i moved twice, noone helped me the police used to chase him and couldnt catch him so said there was noone there. got the mp involved in the end, he took all my independence and energy away from me but luckily 5 years on ive finally not scared to be alone. my advice to all is if you see someone watching you who you dont want to is to not aknoledge them, dont play the game i did thats why it lasted so long. if i cauld of got hold of a shooter i wouldnt of hesitated. if your stalker scares you and you need help feel free to contact me for some advice
2006-09-21 20:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by caroline c 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I had a stalker a few years ago and it was getting really scary to the point my bf had to warn him off believe me its not cool especialy if they kill you because they cant have you
2006-09-21 20:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by vicky s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Scared.
2006-09-21 19:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by beautypsychic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was about fourteen I met this nineteen year old guy on a train and gave him my phone number (well he asked me so I gave him a fake but he rang it so I went woopsy daisy and gave him the real one) And he called me about twenty times a day, I once went to my friends for an hour or so and he called me nine times and texted seven times. He went on for months and was terrifying!
2006-09-22 07:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋