is it ok if a 17 year old guy dated an 18 year old girl, with no sex involved. Would it be ok??
2006-09-21 12:40:45 · 27 answers · asked by Ron H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is perfectly OK if not even a bit noble!
2006-09-21 12:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gonna tell you right now. You're too young for that. The age difference ( and possibly the maturity) between a 13 year old and a 17 year old are light years. Guys at that age aren't exactly trustworthy . Trust me, I'm a female that's 17 I would know. You don't know what he's done, he's a lot older than you, and he might. MIGHT. pressure you into doing something you don't want to, and you'll want to do what he says just to keep him liking you. Don't say you won't have sex. Almost every girl that ends up having sex has that same menatlity you do. You don't know until you're in the situation. Just be smart. Think of the pros and cons. Just dont get hurt. Good luck :)
2016-03-27 01:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that
one of the guys i dated on and off and high school was 16, when i was 18.. and before anyone starts... he was extremely mature and smart and still is this day!
It all depends on the people and the circumstances!
2006-09-21 12:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its totally fine. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 17, we have been going out for a year. The only way you are going to have a problem with sex is if your or her parents have a problem with it.
2006-09-21 12:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by ooopancakeooo 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Guys do it all the time.. The only one that knows what is right is you. Instincts. If you feel like it is wrong don't do it. It will only cause problems later. If you really like him.. go for it.. no sex involved.
2006-09-21 12:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Talena E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's ok. You don't need sex to prove someone that you love them. Don't feel awkward if you are not having sex with that person, if she or you want to wait until marriage or for other reason. You should at least respect there decision and they should also.
2006-09-21 12:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Questions 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very wrong of you to withhold sex from him. He's 17 for cryin out loud. You're torturing the poor boy. Have a heart.
2006-09-21 12:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by DMaximus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it would their is only a 1 year age difference!
2006-09-21 12:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandpa 13 years older than my grandma. Yes
2006-09-21 12:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by joethecoolioest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay, although it's generally better to go out with somewhat older guys as opposed to somewhat younger.
2006-09-21 12:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋