There is this guy that asked me out. And i like him but then i have my boyfriend. the problem is which one should i choose beacuse if i brake up with my boyfriend then he is going to get mad at me and if i do not say no to the boy then he is going to get mad at me.
THis is the story I was on the railing just standing there and the other classes were leaving so then when he was leaving he gave me this note that said " i really like will you go out with me, I know you are going out with someone but atleat give me a chance and give it a thought! So i read it and people came up to me and said are you going to brake up with your boyfriend. They also said i think you should brake up with your boyfriend to go out with the other guy or they said stay with the boyfriend you have right know.
SO PLZ HELP ME I REALLY NEED HELP???? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 12:20:27 · 18 answers · asked by rrmbuck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently you are flirting with the idea of breaking up with your current boyfriend, then I suggest do it now before you hurt him. Especially since this other gentlemen is passing you notes, this could get very ugly. Do you really want all that drama?
2006-09-21 12:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by know-it-all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but its somewhat simple. Okay, well it shouldn't be hard to decide because if you have a boyfriend and you really like him or whatever, then I would think you would keep your boyfriend no matter what. On the other hand, if you have not had a good relationship with your boyfriend and are constantly be having problems like not talking, jealousy issues, and so forth then you should consider moving on and giving the other guy a chance.
Believe me you can't satisfy both so if after you read this advise you still don't have a clue what to do, then I suggest to lay off both until you are sure and ready to have a relationship this way you won't feel pressure and you can move on.
Good luck.
2006-09-21 12:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your self this are you happy in your relationship with your current boyfriend? Don't worry about who is going to be mad at you about your decision this guy or that. Obviously someone is going to get hurt. But your own happiness is what is important. If you are not really happy with who you are with then let him go. Trying to juggle two guys will only be trouble and its not fair to anyone not even you. If you are happy with your relationship stay with him. Oh and those ppl you mentioned who are telling you to break up with your boyfriend if you are happy with him watch out for those ppl. Sometimes friends can be vultures in disguise waiting to snatch your current guy away from you. Believe me it has happened to me. Hopefully you make the right choice. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
2006-09-21 12:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think this out. Do you like your current bf?If so then don't break up or cheat.Is this other guy really serious or is it a practical joke?You could be left out in the cold unless you really have no good reason for dating your bf.It is nice to be made to feel wanted. If this new guy really likes you then He'll be patient and wait. If he gets mad, then you are better off with out him.
Good luck Grandma
2006-09-21 12:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to consider how you feel about your boyfriend. Because if you really like or love him and you break up with him to go out with someone else, You may loose him over something that isnt' worth it. Weight the odds of the people involved. Do you like him,? Is he a great guy? What do you know about this other guy? What do you like about him? If you broke it off with the other guy, and something went wrong that you didn't like, would it be worth losing your boyfriend over?
2006-09-21 12:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Talena E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ya so!! If he changed into grew to change into off by making use of it, he ought to have merely omitted you and in no way teased you about it. tell him, he'd be an fool no longer to carry close you've been crushing on him, and your merely sorry it took you writing a word to figure it out. yet you gotta say it with a grin and slightly horny attitude. do not act weird and wonderful or diffrent....believe me, he teased you about it, it truly is positive. Now bypass ask him what he's gonna do about it, or, I desire the formidable approach, and merely supply him a huge ole kiss and get it over with...solid luck
2016-11-23 13:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even considering going out with this other guy you should break up with your boyfriend because you obviously are not committed to your current relationship. Give this new guy a try; he is clearly keen on you.
2006-09-21 12:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer sounds short and brief:
"LISTEN TO YOUR HEART"
Just let your heart , not your logical brain or fears , guide you, you will take the right action. Human relations is the matter of feeling and love, you should choose and use the right tools to have a peaceful , Lovely and happy relation with your opposite sex.
Wish you good time on next date.
2006-09-21 12:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by a_nahri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being tested. What kind of person are you really? Loyal or unfaithful?
Would you want someone you cared about (your boyfriend) to break up with you just because someone else is interested in him?
You'll findout in life when you're with someone, everyone wants you. When you're alone, not many people are interested.
2006-09-21 12:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u want to do? Don't worry about what people think. If you like your boyfriend, stay with him. If you like this other guy, go with him. Whatever you do you'll lose someone and gain another. I hope this helped.
2006-09-21 12:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by anyonomous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋