we started dating and then my mom found out and didn't like the age difference (me16 him20). so she went to the police. the police made a deal with us, as long as we dont see or talk to each other till i'm 18 (19 months) he wont get arrested. now i can't stop crying and i can't just let him go that easily. i love and miss him so much...and it's been 3 weeks. so i ask, what are some things i can do to get him out of my head???
2006-09-21 12:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PROB HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY THAT WILL REALLY PISSS YOUR MOM OFF TOO SO IT WILL KILL TWO BIRDS WITH ONE STONEE
2006-09-21 12:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Young love it comes on strong and it does really hurt. 19 months is a long time to wait. But if he is meant to be for you he will be waiting and as they say time does heal all wounds. I can gaurantee that one because I remember my first love and I thought I would die. But you won't. So what you need to do is surround yourself with your girlfriends hang at the mall? go to the movies? have a sleepover? If you really need to get this off your chest talk to one of your closest friends about how you feel.
It does help. Also think of taking up a hobby like writting poetry? Painting? Music?
As for how to get him out of your head to tell the truth sweetie it sounds like you really cared for him and caring for someone and then having them taken out of your life well it will just take time. You can't erase a person that you loved with a snap of the fingers and I know ppl will say your to young to know what love is but you can not tell the heart what it feels. Take care.
2006-09-21 19:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotions such as this take a while. my advice is not think about him, get rid of things that make you think of him, and focus on your day-to-day life. The human mind can recover when it wants to. It is probably a good thing that you spend some time apart, you are so young.
2006-09-21 19:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna stop thinkin of ur ex think of a hot movie staror somthin cuz mines gets off my mind
2006-09-21 19:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by doggydude722 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is try to avoid him completely, throw away all pictures of him, has his number blocked from your phone, and if you all ever do come in contact make sure it is just a "hi and bye" thing
2006-09-21 19:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Aleria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get ova it already...life is too short to dwell over someone who dont want u no more...or someone who u cant have...and a grown man has no business with a teenager...a grown man has nothing in common with a teenager..the only thing they want one for is bc they can tell them what to do and control them ...and no real woman would have them...and dont say he wasnt like that ..bc they all are when its that situation
2006-09-21 19:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet some new people make new relationships, step by step u will get over him
2006-09-21 19:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by hellmaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋