How did you know who you wanted to lose your virginity to?

Answer 1

I didn't know at first. Actually, when I first met the guy I lost my virginity to, I knew I didn't want to lose it to him. A week later I stayed at his place, convinced that nothing would happen. But I melted like snow in the sun.
A little while ago I answered somedies question about my first experience of sex here on yahoo answers. Thought you might like to read it, so I pasted it in here for you. Here it comes...

My first time was wonderful. My boyfriend obviously wasn't a virgin, but he gave me ALL the time I needed to be ready for it.

We spent literally all night talking, kissing and couressing eachother. I think we stayed in bed for almost 24 hours. Or maybe it just felt that long. Anyway, we went to bed quite early and stayed up all night, just chatting. I kept all my clothes on. Slowly we started with a kiss and a touch. And then back to the conversation. We kept on chatting and exploring. Meanwhile his hands went further and further. And everytime I thought he was going too far, I said stop and he stopped. A few minutes later he would try again, etc.

He was persistant, but in a nice and respectful way. He tried his best to make me feel at ease and taught me how to enjoy it. We ended up having sex at 7 in the morning. It hurt a little bit, but by then I wanted it so badly that I didn't care.

The most important thing to prevent pain is not being afraid, I think. Just let it all happen! Take your time though, cause girls need to be aroused enough to open up. Guys who rush it can cause lost of pain to the girl.

My first time happened on the first night I ever slept at his place, which was just 2 weeks after having met him. I thought it would be too soon, but we ended up having a relationship of almost 4 years! And now we broke up, but are still good friends.

In case you're a virgin yourself and are wondering what it's gonna be like, I can recommend you not to worry about it. You will feel when the moment is there. The most important thing is to do it with somebody with whom you feel comfortable and who doesn't push you. Relax and enjoy. And like I said: don't rush it, as it might be one of your sweetest memories.

Answer 2

I knew who I wanted to lose my virginity because of the way he made me feel about myself. He made me feel like I was somebody spcecial,like I was needed. If that person gives you butterflies in your stomach and you feel like the world stops when you with that person then it is a good chance that , that person could be the one.

Answer 3

I knew it because I could answer the following questions: Would I trust this person with my life or the life of my child? Do I feel emotionally ready to have sex as an adult with no silly follow up regrets? Are we using protection and is this the right time and place? Am I comfortable in my spirit? If I can answer those questions, then I was ready for sex.

Answer 4

As a man it was not important as to who it was, it was important just to lose it.

Answer 5

easy he was the first guy who asked!!!!!

Actually I was one of the last girls in my friends circle to lose mine,, and I just settled for the guy I was dating at the time.

Answer 6

It's like when you find your real true love, you know he is your true, and he never pressures your about or ever really ask about it then if your ready he is the one you give it to.

Answer 7

After I got married to my husband.

Answer 8

i dient lose mine to the person i wanted to...i just lost it..if i could go back n do it right with whom i wanted to i surely would

Answer 9

YOU KNOW BY THE INSTINCT AND WHEN YOU KNOW THIS PERSON WILL BE WITH YOU FOREVER, THAN YOU CAN LOSE IT, LETS JUST SAY YOU WANT TO LOSE IT WITH YOUR SOULMATE.

Answer 10

I didn't know I just wanted to get it over with
you should hold on to it as long as possible....SEX IS SO OVER RATED!