my mom is such an ash becaues if i have home work due 50 years from now she would make me do it that dm day she is always pissd off for no reasion and she is asking $1,000 from my dad with chiald suport and some thing else when another man lives here!
im so ticked off and she doen't care at all she just get fing pissd i dont know what to do uhg! this sucks i hate my live at my moms house!
i realy need help!
in fact i shouldn't be on right now but shes at her boy friends house yes he lives here and has a house!
realy i NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!plz?!?
2006-09-21 11:57:17 · 11 answers · asked by hardbringer26 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Move in with your dad if possible
Or just try to push through it because eventually you will be able to get out.
Maybe she's going through menopause or PMSing permanently?
2006-09-21 12:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by chaoticmagician 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already know I will sound like the bad guy here but doing your homework before it is due is setting your standards for your future life. You don't know it yet but after you are out of school and out on your own there will be no mom to help you get things done. Your employer won't have you putting things off until later. It is really for your best.
Your mom may be under a lot of stresses right now. You know, just paying the rent, keeping the cupboards full, looking after you and the boyfriend thing too. (I don't think a b/f should be her #1 priority now)
The money issue is to be left between your mom and dad, who lives at your house has nothing to do with child support that is owed to you and your mom. Don't be so hard on her, it is tough being in her situation.
That being said, if you are being abused in any way then talk w/your dad and move.
2006-09-21 19:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by sideways 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to grow up, watch your language etc. I don't know how old you are or where you live or the laws regarding marital break ups regarding children and what age they can decide for themselves where they want to live. You;'ll have to research that yourself. Another thing, stay out of your parents quarrels, it will only distract you from becoming, at this point, a good student and child. Get counseling, at school, if you feel your parents behavior is driving you crazy. Talk to someone, teacher, friend's parents, anyone. Don't keep feelings like that to yourself. I hope this helps.
2006-09-21 19:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to help you have a better life. she wants you to do your homework while its fresh in your mind instead of later when you have forgotten what you learned
the child support is court ordered as part of the divorce and your dad would have to pay it whether your mom remarried or not .. it is his responsibilty as your father and is not your concern.
you need to settle down and not be so argumentative. most kids would appreciate being trusted to be at home alone.
2006-09-21 19:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down first... your mom is dealing with some issues... and homework comes first... it really should... it's not her new boyfriends job to support you, your dad should lend some sort of support... just do as she asks, lay low and wait.. maybe in a few days you and your mom could have a private sit down and ask her why she's been this way... and express to her that it's making you miserable.
2006-09-21 19:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that yound your mother need to have a serious talk. Let her know what you think is wrong with you alls relationship. Give her time to express her feelings without interrupting her.
2006-09-21 19:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by nshsalumni06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your mom's self esteem is really low- don't let her bother you try to get along- instead of getting upset say ok- go with what she says- if you disagree you are just adding fuel to the fire - try to let her get her way - i don't know how old you are, but at 18 you can leave home
2006-09-21 19:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have a good relationship with you're dad than i would say,
move to you're dad.
he is already paying too much on child suport.
2006-09-22 12:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by kelleke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your dad if you can stay with him for a while!
2006-09-21 18:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go move in with ur dad
2006-09-21 19:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by bigboss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋