I am a Scotsman living in America for the time being. I want to have sex with my girlfriend but don't want to get her pregnant. I would use a condom, but the American condoms are too small. What should I do?
2006-09-21 11:41:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
What does your "wife" think of your "girlfriend"?
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Maybe you should ask her for contraceptive advice.
2006-09-24 09:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They won't kill you. They might be mad at first, but then they will learn to accept it. The fact that you are so far away from the clinic is a good thing. I bet anything that when you man up and tell your parents that you plan on taking care of the baby, that they will show you respect for not taking the cowards way out. If you can't involve her parents, then don't. If you can't involve your parents either, than don't. You can walk into any church near your home and tell the pastor what you are telling us- that you feel that you have no options and you are going to need help so that you can keep the baby, and they can get you monetary and other help, including a place to stay. The government has programs such as WIC, Medicaid, and Food Stamps, in addition to Cash Assistance and housing help to help couples that can't make it on your own. Reach out to these types of assistant programs. You will regret it if she goes through with the abortion. You will think about the baby, and wonder if it was a boy or a girl and you will wonder what they would be like. The baby doesn't have to lose its life, and you don't have to give up the time that you could have with the baby. Don't deprive your future kids of a brother or sister. Oh, and don't let anyone scare your girlfriend into delivery pains. I got an epideral with my first born, and I felt absolutely nothing! And don't worry about hospital bills either, because once you get Medicaid, they pay for everything retroactive back to the date of your application. I really hope everything works out with you and your girlfriend! Congrats on your baby- babies love us unconditionally, BTW.
2016-03-27 01:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a spermicidal jelly at the pharmacy. you could also see if they still sell spermicide sponges that are inserted inside your girlfriend and use them both at the same time. there are all kinds of spermicidal creams, jellies and lotions. If I were you, and I had to have sex, I use as many of these products as possible. Then have your girlfriend urinate directly after. I know everyone is laughing but this action will push the sperm down. Not the best birth control method ever devised but use it all and ...........good luck!
2006-09-21 11:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by prissycat1015 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You idiot, That's not a condom you're trying to use. It's a rubber finger tip guard from the hospital. That's probably almost big enough for you but even little ***** like yours need a regular small size condom. Moron.
2006-09-21 11:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go buy a magnum condom, its the biggest condom out. in yea pull out before u *** chance are leasing for her get pregnant and last but not least life is too short enjoy what ever left while it last!
2006-09-21 11:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her go on a birth control method or you can have a vasectomy..... I doubt if the American made condoms are too small for you, unless you are putting them on your head (the one on top of your shoulders) Sounds like a lot of BS or maybe wishful thinking to me.
2006-09-21 11:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by happi2bwu2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get her on the pill. They make all kinds of condoms. Even extra large, these dont fit?
2006-09-21 11:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to say that Americans are small. Let me tell you something, I have seen pictures of Scottish men and they aint all that big. If you are THAT big you should have brought the big boys with you when you came here to live. Maybe they sell them on ebay or something.
2006-09-21 11:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have condoms from your country delivered. For now use your hand.
2006-09-21 11:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, get over yourself man...they do make condoms in larger sizes though.
2006-09-21 11:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by maat13101 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should ask your wife. she'll send you condoms from your home country.
2006-09-24 10:29:36 · answer #11 · answered by Chit P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋