i've been messin around with this guy for a minute and i'm to scared to just reach out and kiss him...(they say u shuld never ask for a kiss, just "take it") well, he's never made an attempt to kiss me and thats why i dont wont to take the chance and get played...we get close alot when were alone he likes to hug and cuddle so what shuld i do...just wait it out???
2006-09-21 11:28:51 · 6 answers · asked by Brwnsknvixen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even if he does make the move, there's always going to be the risk of getting played. It happened to me last year, and it's a horrible feeling.
If you make the move and he's the one who thinks with the wrong head, then you'll feel better that it wasn't his charm in kissing you that made you fall for him. The confidence to just kiss him yourself will come with time, but guys like girls who make the first move. Just don't set yourself up to getting hurt; if you truly think that he's the type who will play you, then don't continue pursuing it.
2006-09-21 11:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Elicit Malice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Guess is he has the same problem as you, he might be scared to make the first move hunni, go for it steal that moment of passion, at the worst he might say no way I'm gay, then again he might respond and next thing your toungs are going like a spin dryer in a washing machine, lol let us know how it goes, there is a chance he might be afraid he might not be a good kisser, that happened to me on my first kiss, now I'm a pro at it, kissing is natural and luffely, go for it
2006-09-21 18:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Loverboi007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know how or at least thinks he doesn't know how he may be afraid to make the first move. He could have tried it on another girl in the past and been rejected. Just give him a quick peck on the lips right before you part ways. The next time you see him, do it again. Hell, he might even initiate the next time. He prolly just needs a little boost.
2006-09-21 18:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by caramellatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat the heck, how can a guy not like kissing, he might be gay and all that is the only time, or if it is an ugly person, but i don't think he wouldn't turn down a kiss, mayne u have like herpies
hey u can make hte move, it isn't always have to be the guy, besides once u kiss him he would want to kiss u more if ur a good kisser or something
2006-09-21 18:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE CHANGES THE TOPIC OF KISSING OR DOESN'T MAKE A MOVE, GURL IF HE DOESN'T KNOW, TEACH HIM.....
2006-09-21 18:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yoou have my same problem!!
can someone tell me please :-\
2006-09-21 18:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mi$s-RoMantiC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋