OK, here's my question: I've always been attracted to way older guys, 35-55 generally speaking. I'm 18 and consider myself an intelligent person not really interested in messing around or in what a lot of my peers are thinking/talking about. So guys, give me your opinion? Hypothetically speaking would you have a relationship with a much younger woman and take her seriously, if you were a smart, sensible person and not just a pervert?
2006-09-21 11:16:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u love a person then u should go for it no matter what the age. i would consider going out with someone younger than me or older than me aslong as there is enough love between them. so if u love a person go out with them no matter what the age
2006-09-21 11:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself this: what would a 35-55 year old guy get out of dating you? I'm not asking this question to be mean, I just want you to consider things from his point of view. Women his age are well-seasoned and knowledgable about dating. He would only be seriously tempted by you if he's outclassed by women his own age, or he's interested in having sex with a girl who has the body of an 18 year old. Honest. He would have to be mentally underdeveloped in some way. What would you talk about with a 50-year-old man? What would you have in common? You say that you are intelligent and I believe you. Intelligence, however, is just the beginning. I like the analogy of a mind being like a computer. You can have the best processor chip (intelligence) in the world, but without the proper software (experience), the chip has nothing to work with. You and some old geezer are not going to be compatible because you don't run the same software. He'd be in it for the power and the sex with an 18 year old body and you'd be in it because you're looking for a father/authority figure.
2006-09-21 11:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by sickphil71 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I m 35 single, no kids no wife no maried no gay....first of all.
I would like to find a woman between 18 and 26 inteligent , working, nice feelings and open minded to live life as an adventure...i live in Spain at the Mediterranean...
I have not married because when i found love 3 years ago it was not the right moment....but thats an other story. If u realy r smart...lets talk, by the way i m no pervert.
I m a hard working man with few time for dating...stetix2005@hotmail.com...
2006-09-21 11:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Alex B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well way older guys are normally attracted to very intelligent, way younger females. So, statistics seems to be in your favor as most 18 year old girls prefer men way younger than the demographic you've developed an affinity for.
Expect 100 email messages from lonely 35-55 year olds in a matter of minutes.
2006-09-21 11:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 42, and have dated some girls in their mid-20s. The biggest obstacle is having few mutual interests, and often a real lack of maturity in a young girl. I have friends who have age differences much like the one you mention, and their relationship does fine. In every case though, the guy always looks and acts younger, and the girl is very mature. By relationship, if you are asking about a roll in the hay, SURE! If you mean long term, it takes two special people who understand each others wants and needs.... but then again I guess that applies to all good relationships.
2006-09-21 11:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I am married to a man who is 23 years older than I am. We met when I was 29 and got married whe I was 31. He is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. We have been married for 10 years and it seems like yesterday. You can tell if they are taking you seriously or not. If they dont kick them to the curb. Good Luck.
2006-09-21 11:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A hundred guys may answere off course but when youdate an older guy he will treat you your age no matter how mature or experienced you are. Regardless he will know more and have more life experience, duh! So just be prepared to be treated like a child. Did you have a dad. Not to bean *** but the father complex is why most chicks like older guys.
2006-09-21 11:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by SassyFras85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would have to be really immature to be able to carry on a relationship with an 18 year old, no offense...
2006-09-21 11:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Cleareyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant handle over 2 years younger than me
2006-09-21 11:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your 18 and are into guys 35-55 your either fat and ugly or a gold digger
2006-09-21 11:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋