my lady has 4 to 6 text messages to some other guy over a two or three day period on her phone, when i ask her about them she said it was her girlfriend who used her cell to text this dude and not her. so my question to you all is; am i getting played by my lady or not?????
2006-09-21 11:13:59 · 14 answers · asked by lov2lovu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want the truth? Insufficient evidence.
You want advice? Keep an eye on her.
2006-09-21 11:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking her friend if its true or not might not help, us ladies tend to lie for our friends...I think you'd be the best judge for this, i mean is she acting differently towards you? then maybe she is, or if shes not letting you see her phone to see if she sent any more, etc. Just dont be quick to assume things and give her a chance, even if she did send another guy a lot of texts, it doesn't have to neccesarily mean your getting played..good luck!
2006-09-21 11:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by ♥amorvida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd kinda think if she were text messaging some other dude, she'd have the sense to erase the messages after. Is your relationship that shaky that you even doubt her?! If so, maybe you need to move on.
2006-09-21 11:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ziva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... has she ever lied to you about any thing? Do you trust her? And does she have a reason to? if i were you i would just relax ask her if she is tellin the truth. if she isn't it should be pretty easy to tell. but over all it is your choice to do what you think is right.
2006-09-21 11:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy_hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the number!
2006-09-21 11:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by johnathen777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your ladies friend if this is true.If you dont know who the friend is and your girl wont tell you then drop her. She is playing you.
2006-09-21 11:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by heath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to see the messages he sent. If she won't let you then I would start to wonder why she has to hide them. If she shows you then she has nothing to hide and you have nothing to worry about!
2006-09-21 11:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by sassygirl2473 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know her or her friends. If I did, I could give you a reasonable maybe, maybe not.
I'd actually have had to witness it to give you a yes or a no.
2006-09-21 11:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....the majority of the time when u have that feeling in ur gut that she's cheating...she probably is. So if ur suspicious then its prolly true.......why dont u get the guy's # call him and ask him
2006-09-21 11:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the friend if it's true.
2006-09-21 11:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋