Say if you thought you wanted to sleep with someone and felt it right, but really deep down you weren't ready and it wasn't right? How do you know if your ready or not?
2006-09-21 11:11:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haven't you answered your own question. If you're not ready then don't. Simple.
2006-09-22 01:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question there "deep down you weren't ready and it wasn't right" I would wait until you are 100% sure that it's right and then it will be so much better cause you will know that you have made the right decision, I wish that I had waited a bit longer and although I don't regret it, I am upset because I'll never get to have that first time again.
Whatever you decide you need to make sure that what ever happens you are happy with yourself the next day because you are the only person that you need to answer to
2006-09-21 18:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by stokegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then you are not ready if you have any doubts than wait when the time is right and you are with the right person you will know and feel happy about it
2006-09-21 18:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really answered your own question,and I say this , because anytime you question your own thoughts or intentions you are in fact telling yourself you are not ready. I know you don't want to hear this but it's true. As you grew up your mind and your heart remembers everything you have been taught and told by those that truly care for you your mother, father,grandparents. Whenever that time comes you will know it will be right because your inner self told you live first learn laugh but never go against your inner self.
2006-09-21 18:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sidney H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O Boy that is one of the most hardest questions around. It is very hard to explain. You have to feel it in your heart and in your mind. Does having sex with someone to you mean you have to love them? Evaluate your feelings and your true reasons as to why you are even considering it. Is it to show something? Do you jus think its whats right? No one can actual tell you exactly what your feeling will feel like but all those questions I asked will be pretty easy to answer if its time. Think Carefully your precious
2006-09-21 18:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Teee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't ready then don't have sex. You have to feel that you want to and not because the person forces you to. If you're not ready you'll regret it afterwards. And you'll know when you're ready when your heart tells you that you're ready. Trust your gut.
2006-09-21 18:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest waiting until you are 100% certain that it is the best, the ONLY thing to do.
If you have sex when you aren't completely ready, and are not entirely convinced that it is the right thing to do, you will only spoil something that ought to be wonderful.
Someone who pressures you to have sex when you are not really ready does not care about you, only about themself!
And PLEASE, whenever you do start, use condoms! Care for yourself, and your lover!
2006-09-21 18:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by zen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its your first time then I'd say be very careful and be very sure you are not being pressured in to in (this may not even be obvious - you could be feeling peer pressured cos your friends are all doing it or whatever). If deep down you're not ready then I'd trust that over your lust.
2006-09-21 18:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by jennymilluk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh i had this problem....i really wanted to sleep with them but i didnt feel it was right as they were about to go away for a few months so we decided not to....it will probably be better when he comes back....but otherwise i'm ready to wait until i feel totally ready....trust me...you will just KNOW when you are ready.... :-) good luck hun
2006-09-21 18:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by belleoftheball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, you only think you do. You'll never know whether you were right or not until you've done it - or not - and decided how you felt about it after the fact.
Soz an' all that.
2006-09-21 18:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if deep down your not ready then you just answered it yourself.
2006-09-21 18:14:00 · answer #11 · answered by ill_be_up_in_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋