why do fellas get scared when you try to explain how you feel about them?
2006-09-21 10:44:24 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he starts to panic even if i say " im missing you". aaarrrggghhh
2006-09-21 11:02:33 · update #1
seems like these days men are afraid of commitment so when you start to tell them how you feel about them and perhaps want to take the relationship to the next level...they don't know what to think. most men think that this "friends with benefits" "booty call" type of relationships are ok. BUT we women are the ones that allow it. so until women decide that we aren't going to settle for these types of relationships men will just find some dumb *** girl willing to be a booty call and pass up a good thing (us women that actually want to be in a committed relationship.)
you need to figure out what type of relationship he is looking for before you decide to waste your time. committed relationship or booty call. good luck
2006-09-21 11:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by DaBeautiful1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for men as im a woman...but some men are different to others. and I guess it depends where in the relationship you are at.
Sometimes the time of day makes a difference, what mood they are in etc.
Its explained v well mars and venus book thingy, and they sometimes go into their "caves". This is sooo typical of my boyfriend and we have been together for 3+ years.
Its sometimes about timing and they sometimes need to speak when they are ready.
Maybe you havent found the right fella yet. Keep at it x
2006-09-21 10:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by passionate_angel101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have been telling the wrong fellas how you feel !! save it for the right man, if he feels the same he won't be scared, promise !!!
2006-09-21 10:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have an issue with showing there true emotions...they think it makes them look weak, and by not showing their true emotions of feelings they feel they cant get hurt..its a commitment thing and them not being in control...they like to keep u guessing....*****ers really huh...
2006-09-21 11:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by natalie.waterson@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just not meeting the right man. Try to really feel comfortable with a boy before you pour your heart out to him. You wouldnt do it with a stranger
2006-09-21 10:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by craigrobinsonn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women ask stooopid questions???
Oops, sorry. Especially if you don't have a sense of humour.
The answer is of course, that your point only applies to some men - and others have matured beyond their teens and would not have such a problem.
2006-09-21 10:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Glenn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont. women are hard to work out at the best of times. i prefer a woman to explain how she feels. you know where you stand and can work on your relationship with a better understanding of each other
2006-09-21 10:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's totally in our nature to tackle something head on like that, especially if we've not had a few beers
2006-09-21 10:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jiggy_O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not as emotional as women and can't understand it. It's not that they don't want to listen and understand - they just can't!
A simplified answer try reading the book below...
2006-09-21 10:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are not used to thinking. They live in the here and now and if their food dish is full and they have a warm spot to sleep they are happy and content.
2006-09-21 10:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋