I love my boyfriend, but everyone else that knows him calls him a "fa*" or stupid. My friends seem to support our relationship but I think they just dont want to hurt my feelings...Why is it that I'm the only one to see all the good things in him? Should I end our relationship since no one else seems to like him?
2006-09-21 10:32:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOO definately not, you shouldnt break up with your b/f just because your friends dislike him, trust me if you trully loved him and cared about him dont leave him because he is disliked by your friends, for all you know your friends are jeoulous of your relationship with him and are waiting for you to "break" up with him to get with him... soo dont base your relationship on other peoples opinions, it is YOUR relationship and Your B/f, no one elses, soo stick with ure b/f and forget about what everyone else thinks, because as well know, love is blind and only the two of you can see that no one else... good luck :)
2006-09-21 10:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by <LittleFoot> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with him then you should most deffinetly go with your heart. I've been going through the same thing and no matter who I talk to they say follow your heart. If you are in love with him, stay with him, if he means something to you then you shouldnt fall into the traps of peer pressure and ruin something good that you have going for you. If your friends seem to support your relationship then chances are, they really do. And as for those people who are being mean, they're probably just jealous that they don't have that kind of a bond with someone and wish that they did, so they're mean to you and him so they can see you hurting when you fall into their trap. It doesn't matter what anyone else says, only you can chose who you love and why.
2006-09-21 10:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by jeffsgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, do you want to come across as shallow "princess"? That is the dumbest reason I have ever heard of for someone to dump the person they like. Hell, I'm dating a girl who is constantly being called fatty, or tubby, or buick. I don't care one fudging bit! I love her, and that's all the matters. That's all that should matter to you, and that he makes you happy, keeps you entertained, and doesn't fool around with other woman. I think maybe you need some new friends lady, because people who can't support you when you happy are not your friends. They're loosers.
2006-09-21 10:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by ianr1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is our relationship why would you break up with him because your friends don't like him. Listen in life not everyone that is a part of your life people will like you just have to know witin yourself that he is the person for you.
If he makes you happy and you know that he is a good person why are you bothered by what other people thing. Now suppose you go with what your firends say and break up with him and you meet someone else who everyone likes but he is like a total jerk towards you and treats you poorly what then. You follow your own judgement.
2006-09-21 10:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by amb1964 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO. listen hon, you found someone you love. do not ever let go. F*ck them and to hell with what they say. So what? If they cant see the beauty in him then what the hell do they know? Absolutely nothing. Babe you found something people dream of. So what if your the only one who sees something worth loving so be it.
You have something perfect. If they cant understand that ignore it. Love can make them invisible. Hon if you let him go because of what some b*stards are b*thcen about, you will regret it.
Rumors can go away easy.
Love is something you should never give up. You can get over the remarks. But girly if you leave him because of those remarks? You will feel aweful and regret it.
2006-09-21 10:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can take two approaches to this.
First, maybe they are seeing more about him than you are. Maybe you are in denial, or he talks bad about you behind your back. Perhaps he is really two faced. Perhaps they are right. You need to decide what their motives might be for splitting you up and see the big picture.
Second, maybe they are just haters and you are right. You should not bow to the pressure of your friends. Again you have to see what the real motives are.
In any case, you need to be an independent thinker, but remember, your friends, if they are real, might be seeing something you are not.
2006-09-21 10:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is a simple one: no. You shouldn't worry what other people think about him; as long as you know who he is and he treats you right, there's no reason to give up your happiness because others are too benighted to see past what's on the surface. If you feel you love him and you're happy, then that's all that matters.
2006-09-21 10:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Elicit Malice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER do anything that doesn't feel right to you. Does your boyfriend treat you bad, does he call you names, put you down, or even physically harm you? Ask yourself these question first. If you love him (and doesn't cause you any emotional/physical harm), like you say you do, that should be enough. If you're contemplating dumping him just because your friends don't like him, maybe you should sit down and discuss the situation w/your friends. Explain to them that he is your boyfriend and that you love him and the things they say about you boyfriends hurts YOU, if they still don't get it, maybe they aren't as good as friends as you thought.
2006-09-21 10:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Hey You! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you really like and care about this guy why should it matter what your friends or anybody else thinks. The way you feel about him in your heart is all that matters.
2006-09-21 10:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you end your relationship base on other people then you maybe making the biggest mistake of your life. Is he cheating on you, putting his hands on you in a unloving way,or calling you out your name, if not then way would you leave him, it's only you and him in your relationship and no one else should matter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you take heed to my words and follow your heart and no one else!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 10:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋