This girl I knew from highschool and I have been on two dates, she told me in casual conversation that she has not slept with anyone in over 12 years but on our second date we slept together. My girlfriend there also says she is "friendly" when drinking and of course she was with me. This girl likes to drink so i am not too sure about her telling me about her long absense of sex. What do all of you think?? Thanks!!
2006-09-21 10:27:42 · 21 answers · asked by Ken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She hopped into bed really quickly with you... I would doubt that she has not had sex in 12 years too.
2006-09-21 10:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 12 years ago...if she was with say only 1 or 2 people i would believe her...but since she slept with you on the second date, it means 12 years ago she was probably with a few more than 1 or 2 since she didn't hesitate sleeping with you on that date...it's hard to tell
2006-09-21 10:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by mary H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your the only dude that was willing to sleep with her in the last 12 years. Other than that if she gets drunk...maybe she doesn't remember having sex in the last 12 years.
2006-09-21 10:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by deedermarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would lie about not having sex in 12 years. I know that I was nervous about telling someone it had been four years for me. My suggestion would be to take her word for it. She probably jumped in the sack so soon because it had been so long.
2006-09-21 10:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she meant to say she has not slept alone in over 12 years :P
2006-09-21 10:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, gimme a break. She's taking you for the proverbial "ride". Sounds like she has been the neighborhood bike for the past twelve years.
You might want to ask her to submit to an STD exam. Get yourself checked while you're at it.
2006-09-21 10:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is more than likely telling you the truth. Just because she is friendly when she drinks doesn't necessary mean she jumps in the sack. It just means she is more outgoing than she usually is.
What reason would she have to lie about this situation to you?
2006-09-21 10:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Judy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares. The really issue here is that she is lying to you. If you don't care that she is lying then who cares weather or not she hasn't had sex in 12 years?
2006-09-21 10:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember the rule of 3!! and yeah i would say she is probably just trying to impress you by making it seem like your the only one she has slept with in years.
2006-09-21 10:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by DarkJester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she drinks, then she probably doesn't remember how really long it has been. Sober it might seem like 12 years, but drunk it's probably less.
2006-09-21 10:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋