I know people are attracted to different things but I rarely get hit on by black guys ( I'm black) as opposed to white guys..
Weird.
2006-09-21 10:23:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I actually have the opposite problem, I only get hit on by black guys. (well 80%) and i'm white/hispanic. It definiely has to do with the way you carry yourself or the way you look that is attracting white guys.
To find out why you have to ask yourself many questions:
Who do i hang out with?
Where do I hang out?
How do I dress?
Are most of my friends white?
Do i go to a predominantly white school/white workforce?
If these are the cases, then this may be the reason why you are getting hit on by these individuals.
I unfortunately had to start building on stereotypes to get away from the common flirts i found myself with. Using stereotypes i avoided clubs that catered to hip.hop or reggeaton crowds (casual dress) and i steered away from profiles on the internet that are open to everyone. I also changed who i hung out with and the places I went to to get into a more white crowd.
There is nothing racist about not being attracted to white guys and there is nothing racist about me not being attracted to black guys. It's just preference, and you have every right to want to change that situation.
Good luck
2006-09-21 10:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that sister, but maybe it is because of the way you act. Or the people that you are around. I think it depends on age too, I have not problem with any men. They all attract, and I am black and 51 so I do not know what you are doing. Are you an all that woman, or are you opened minded? It depends on you, and what you want to attract. We as black females do not always want men that do not work, go to school or have transportation ect. But you can find that in any race of men
2006-09-21 10:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by SWRK student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe those black guys dont find the special qualities that you have as opposed to white guys. white guys are not that bad because i actually had one and treated me with respect better than those sorry black guys i have dated not that all black guys are like that
2006-09-21 10:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by deszjd2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not really matter who u like wera all homan you have a choice who ever u like take it,am black 2 and I like to see white guys portarican mexican domican Haitain Jamican I love all of them.
2006-09-21 10:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you aint cute and your a troll
2017-01-26 21:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Safara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are after the white girl and feel they can get black on the block
2006-09-21 10:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by sunrisedrifter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In general I don't find black women attractive. I am not racist, and granted there are attractive black women, but in general I don't prefer them.
2016-03-27 01:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u act as if thats a really bad thing lol... but if thats how u see it look at things u do... where u hang out.... music u listen to.... friends and your likes
2006-09-21 10:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by CoNsTaNt_FaNaTiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your personality appeals to white guys =/
2006-09-21 10:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by thesweetjc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must carry yourself differently.
2006-09-21 10:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋