I have this one friend, and I just found out that she is bisexual. Being a very devout Christian, I am VERY against bisexuality and homosexuality. Its is an abomination. I'm not really sure what I should do about this, if anything. I know that it is wrong, but I also know I should be nice to her. Please give me some advice from a Christian point of view.
2006-09-21 10:20:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
she has sort of made a pass at me. so it is my business.
2006-09-21 10:46:06 · update #1
Unless she has made a pass at you, her sexual orientation is absolutely none of your business.
Blessings )O(
EDIT: If she has made a pass at you then tell her you aren't interested. What does "sort of made a pass" mean? Are you sure you are not making more out of it than was intended due to paranoia?
2006-09-21 10:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he doesn't claim to be a Chirstian. If he say that he is and is really wanting to be with God and go to Heaven when he dies and would do anything for God, just show him that passage in 1corinthians that explijs what the homomsexuals and bisexuals will not be recieving if they continue to do that. The devil has been using this to get people far from God knowing that it is against God's rules. But just tell ur friend that God deons't allow homosexuality in His house and that htey should just ask God to get away from that problem and take it away from them.
To drive it out of them. Was this person always homo or just now was? Just tell the person that it is not even morally rigth. How cna someone like two diff kinds of genders at the same time? But try not to be mean and try to help that person out cuz if they just found our that they were bi, then they will sstat freaking out. I hope this doesn't ruin ur friendship, but u know that when ever u have a friend that is against God adn all fo God's wished personally, then they shouldn't be ur friend at all.
Hope i helped. Cuz i am stronlgy against it to and once i find out if someon is gay or bi i just want to trun away and not even be near them. Buit not hurt their feelings at the same time. Cuz they are still huimna but they are just worshiping the devil with what they are doing though.
2006-09-21 10:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what I mean.......if you are christian I thought you were not supposed to judge and to except people? That is why I am so sick of people saying that they are Christian...or that they are "real" Christians.Like they made up the rules. If your friend was your friend before you found this out, then why is it such an issue??? You are not a part of her sex life are you, so who cares? If you care about it so much then just talk to her and let her know that it makes you uncomforrtable for her to talk about it around you(if she even does) but don't stop being her friend...that is just so wrong. I am sorry but that is BS
2006-09-21 10:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As real christian you know what you should do. I would tell her you need to talk to her. Find a time that you both can talk in private. Let her know how you feel about the situation and that you do not approve, in a respectful way. Do not try to push the Bible on her. Because she will turn on you. And, go on your way and all you can do then is pray that God will show her the way. You have to remember to always respect others feelings. this goes for anything that you do not approve of.
Good Luck
2006-09-21 10:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by mrslaurarivas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not judge. Pray for your friend, but do not say anything about how what she is doing is an "abomination" or else she won't be your friend for very long. Pray also for yourself on how you can be more Christ-like in this situation.
Oh, and you do not need to "do" anything. The Bible teaches us to remove the log in our own eye before trying to take the splinter out of someone else's eye. Concentrate on bettering yourself spiritually and as a human being. Pray. And again, do not judge. That is not for you or any of us other humans to do.
2006-09-21 10:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay im sorry im not a christian,
If your friend is bisexual then LET HER BE!!!Its not up to you to say who she should be and how she lives her life, if she wants to do crack, you can give her ur point of view but you CAN NOT change her mind! I hate how you people think you can change the whole damn world with your stupid narrow minded opinions!
If you dont like the way ur friend is its NOT HER its you!
2006-09-21 10:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~Flutergirl~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a christian and i think your acting a little childish and kinda like a bigot if she is your friend you should still care for her like you never found out .. it does not affect you it is her personal sexuality that she shared with you probably because she thought you wouldn't judge her .. i mean being a christian and all who are you to pass judgment nowhere in the bible does it say you will go to hell for being friends with someone who is bi...
2006-09-21 10:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to walk in forgiveness. That just means you care about her & any yuky feelings associated is returned dipped in the Love of God.
It is wrong, & she is hurting you by her choices. All you can do is let her know, you will be her friend if she isn't bisexual around you. That you can't be friends with sinful behaviour, but you can be friends with her.
If she wants you go along with her choices, you have to tell her you won't.
2006-09-21 10:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by t a m i l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a devote Catholic. But my point of view on this matter is. She was your friend before you found this out. is she a good person. Or you would not be friends with her to begin with. Look into your heart, and pray. your answer will come to you. Remember do not judge lest you be judged.
2006-09-21 10:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the sinner and Hate the sin, thats what I was always taught. You don't have to like or agree with someone to love and care about them. Don't let her sexual orientation cause a problem in your friendship. Just explain to her that you are uncomfortable with tha aspet of her life and don't want to be involved in it but wish to remain friends as you always have.
2006-09-21 10:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by lunitari601 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋