ive recently become gd friends with this guy. but as we get closer my feelings of friendship have become stronger. im not sure if he feels the same but im planning on finding out somehow! Im 16 and people are saying that what im feeling is just a silly crush but these feelings are unlike anyfing ive felt b4! do u think its just a "silly teenage crush" or not? im not some stupid lovesick kid....
2006-09-21 10:19:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
teenager or not, what your feeling is definitely new and exciting. if you plan to pursue it be honest with yourself and make sure he is honest with you. It could be love, like or crush but either way I am sure it feels good. If there are red flags anywhere wait to find out but if everything is A ok, GO FOR IT! (but don't go all the way, either)
2006-09-21 10:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't doubt your feelings are real and I wouldn't call them silly. Probably what people mean to say is that being 16 years old, it's most likely as you mature and grow and change, these feelings will also change. This is probably not the guy you're going to be spending the rest of your life with, so getting emotionally involved and distracted from school and things is probably not going to be in your best interest.
Because you're 16, most people would agree that you still have about 10 years of maturing to do before you understand the true meaning of love-- it's certainly more than "feelings." Also, the type of guy you think is cute and cool now is guaranteed to change as you mature. Investing time, emotions and feelings into a "relationship" at this age may seem very important to you now, but adults know from experience that these teenager crushes are more about learning about heartache than real love.
2006-09-21 17:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to tell if it is the real thing or not is time. Its definately not a silly teenage crush - even if it is infatuation, that isn't silly, the feels are very overwhelming, even as an adult.
I wouldn't fret about it, just wait and see - there is no need to put a label on what you are feeling, just enjoy it!
2006-09-21 17:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16, and full of life and you have a lot of it still to live. Try to work on you and learn what you really want out of life and love yourself!! Boys, men--whatever they will be around the rest of your life. I had a baby at 15, I did not mean to do that, but I was in LOVE or I thought--crush----------man, I had a daughter that I would not trade, but I am thankful that I did not get stuck with the dad. Learn,live, go to school, travel see the world, ----------when you get back----------MEN will still be here
2006-09-21 17:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by SWRK student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its real. you said "as we get closer, my feelings of friendship have become stronger". this means you didnt have feelings for him until you truly seen what a great guy he was. its also normal for close friends of the opposite sex to have off and on crushes for each other, so you may be right, he could feel the same way about you.
2006-09-21 17:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it could well be i cant say its not because i met this guy a year and two months ago, we were just good friends at first then it developed now we are together and both very much in love, he is my dream guy and i cannot believe my luck, dreams can come true so good luck and go for it you never know you might get lucky too x x x
2006-09-21 17:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by English gothic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you won't have your answer until you know how he feels about you. If you're unsure of how he feels, don't push it. Do you call him or initiate you two being together? If so, back off just a little and see if he pursues you. If he does, than I think you have your answer.
2006-09-21 17:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at that age is very easy to fall for someone, but only time will say if it is the real thing or not...
2006-09-21 17:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah hun it may be just a bit more than a Crush, let your Heart, guide your Mind,and you may wanna run it by him how your feeling, who knows, he may feel the same! good luck hun
2006-09-21 17:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. If you really like him ask him out your self. If he says no than it probaly isnt that important
2006-09-21 17:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋