How do you tell your boyfriend your hurting but saying it so he will really think about what he does.
2006-09-21 10:13:37 · 8 answers · asked by !!yentruoc!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's better to keep u'r feelings to yourself. If you don't one day when you guys start argueing he'll bring up anything he can to make you hurt worse.. Men are very incensitive.
2006-09-21 10:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say something like "You are mean to me" it will shut him down. Instead start with "It hurts me when you ..." Then he may be more open. Good luck. Remember guys are not good at reading between the lines so give it to him straight, short, and sweet.
2006-09-21 17:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by SexxyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him very honestly and look him straight in the eyes, make him look into your eyes and just be truthful, honest about whatever the situation that is hurting you.....you have to communicate to make things happen!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 17:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by VICTORIA L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to spell it out and hope he is sensitive enough to want to think about changing the behavior that is causing you the pain.
2006-09-21 17:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain what he is doing or saying makes you sad.
2006-09-21 17:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry to him saying what he did hurts you alot and say if he really care he will stop it, it allwas work
2006-09-21 17:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by abcboyohboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him be honest and explain it to him in a simple way.He'll understand if he really cares.
2006-09-21 17:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by love me like me hate me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest.... and straight
2006-09-21 17:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋