been going with this girl for 5 years and she says she still love me and miss me. but after we broke up 2 weeks she going out with an older guy thats 8 years older then her and sure he drives a nice car and has the money. is she just trying to have fun? then what if one day she comes back to me and i think she will shold i take her back? my heart is broken but i wanna still be her freind i text her every day and i say ill stop texting her or calling her but she says she dosent mine i wanna be your freind. why is it hard to let someone you love go how can she allready forgot about me.. all i can think is her! we even talk on the phone for 3 hours the other day just saying stuff. now on oct 6 where going to a concert as freind.. i can handle it i think and where staying in one room
2006-09-21 10:13:07 · 14 answers · asked by abcboyohboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are a victim of the BBD (Bigger Better Deal). Forget about that shallow winch, and concentrate on yourself.
2006-09-21 10:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Manny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shoudl stop calling and txting her so much. You think she minds, she says she doesn't, maybe she's just using you as backup in case her bf now breaks up with her. Try forgetting about her. If you really love her why not tell her how you feel about her still and ask her about how she is and you could give her time to think about her feelings. But if she says she's over you or takes too long to decide I think you should move on; she's not going to go back to you if you're with another girl. If you move on, you might actually find the right girl for you.
2006-09-21 11:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a break and enjoy living for a change. Relationships change, and especially when you are young. Girls like older men, because of everything you said, MONEY, CARS and maturity. But they are not always worth it. Stop trying so hard, to get her attention. If it is meant to be, she will be back, if not thank God, you will find others, it may not feel like it right now, but you will
2006-09-21 10:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by SWRK student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants comfort that is why she is with this other man...I think she is confused and she doesn't want to let you go. You have to be strong and cut her lose altogether for her to realize that she can't have you anymore. Get rid of the memories of her in your apartment and try going out and have a good time. And try not to think about her.
Wishing you all the best.
2006-09-21 10:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by Island Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hasnt forgot about you, trust me. She just doesnt want you to kno she hasnt. She figures that you dont wanna be with her and love her like she loves you so shes pissed and wants you to realize you want to be with her but she still says she wants to be your friend because she wants you to feel exactly like you feel right now.... so decide, its your decision. You either forget about her or ask her to get back together. You can answer your own questions.
2006-09-21 10:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize by now that she has found someone more exciting and more fulfilling. Because you are a nice guy, she wants to be friends with you, but not an exclusive lover. It's your decision what to do with her at this juncture.
2006-09-21 10:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by lg traveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like be her friend is the only way you can still be with her. You should make her chose you or moneybags. If you keep being her friend she will think she can have her cake and eat it to. Good Luck
2006-09-21 10:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesson in life; all women are cheap, get yourself some money buy another one. Don't get attached to any of them; get rid of them as soon as they give you a problem, then buy another one. That's life. Don't ever leave it hurt you. Move on knowing that there are others.
2006-09-21 10:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by kasar777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's playing you & will eventually figure out how to take advantage of you, you gotta spend time with other people, not necessarily romantically, to get her off your mind
2006-09-21 10:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why be friends with an ex? It will only cause you trouble
2006-09-21 10:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋