Me and my ex boyfriend (first love) were together on and off for 2 years. Ive gone through alot of phases of depression and then sometimes realizing its best for us to not be together. Im with an AMAZING guy now, and i really like him. most of the time i dont think about my ex, but sometimes i have those days where i cant stop thinking about him. Is that normal?...is it unfair to my new boyfriend?? what do you think about all this?...
2006-09-21 10:03:44 · 6 answers · asked by *Cole* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex and i broke up officially in january, but we have dated a couple times since then...
2006-09-21 10:06:44 · update #1
I think it's completely normal, i mean, you just don't forget someone like that, your ex was very important in your life, you probably had your "firsts" with him, u had good moments, hard moments together, u shared too many things, so it's normal u think of him.
but as we grow up, we also learn to live with those memories, he was the right person for you back then, it doesn't mean he's the right one for u right now...
people change, life change, everything change, but your memories will always stay the same, don't get fooled by a memory, ok?
2006-09-21 10:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always remember your first love. This is usually the one that gives you the first kiss, the first snuggle, the first heartbreak.
However at your age (guessing you are under 18) you shouldn't have a b/f for 2 years.. maybe 2 months (at most) but really you should be dating a lot of different boys and seeing what they have to offer and what you have to offer them. its al about learning about yourself and how you fit in to the world, relationships, etc. My advice would be to cherish those memories and go out and make more with a lot of different guys (note I'm NOT saying go out and have sex with everyone). enjoy yourself.. you will find the right guy when the time is right.. don't push it!
2006-09-21 17:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not saying that it is not normal to think about another guy when you are with someone else but yes I do think it is unfair to the other because you can't give your heart completely to this guy if you are still having feelings and thinking about your ex all the time.
2006-09-21 17:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal u probably still have feelings 4 him dont brush that aside the feelings will past and maybe quick it dependz on the person.
2006-09-21 17:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you ll always remember your first love
2006-09-21 17:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you juts need to let it burn and be happy with who your with
2006-09-21 17:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋