Ok, I make a really bad first impression, in clubs, on dates, can anybody give me any tips on how to make a good one?
2006-09-21 10:01:59 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself. thinking about having a good impression often leads to stress and causes us to get alittle clumsy or awkward at times, just, be yourself.
2006-09-21 10:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by debo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because your nerves on what others will think. But remember this...if your worried that they wont like you, by being shy around them they are more likely not going to like you thinking that your rude. You only get one first impression so either shut out the shyness or you will have to deal with the bad impression you leave. Show them that your a fun girl and be really really nice and of course poilte and sure they will love you...if not than they need some help cause they just left you a really bad impression so you dont need them pulling you down.
2006-09-21 10:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. In what way are you making a bad impression?
In general, my advice is to talk to the person the same way you'd talk to a good friend. Show some interest in who he is and what he says, but keep it on a friendly level... coming on hot & heavy is the surest way to drive away anyone who's worth having.
2006-09-21 10:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself im sure there is loads of guys out there who will like u 4 who u are. they are the only 1s that are worth it. but a good tip is not to flirt when ur really drunk cuz u can fall over, get sick on the guys fave shirt (like me looong story) or say sumthing stupid, or do something stupid like start doing an impression of a lap dancer( also like me, also long story i was dared and i have no shame when im sober never mind drunk)
2006-09-21 10:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some good books on body language e.g. Sex Signals by Judi James or the books by Tracey Cox the well known relationship expert. In fact don't just read them, study them and put the recommendations into practice.
2006-09-21 10:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile
2006-09-21 10:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sincere. That always make an impression.
2006-09-21 10:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ssme way i'm nervous all the time just think to yourself i am a control person i will smile and be polite and your funny throw in a joke
2006-09-21 10:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly you need to work out what makes it bad and then work on reversing it bit by bit, dont try and be something your not, just adjust what you do, hope that helps sweetheart, and good louck
2006-09-21 11:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by lovelylips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dress up nice have fun dont go flirty let them do all the talking first then who knows good luck
2006-09-21 10:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋