So it is wrong for somone to keep something from someone in a relationship, but I wonder ioff one was like that ts on that show and looked sexy underneath after surgery then I don't suppose history coming to the surface would matter?
2006-09-21 09:54:34 · 20 answers · asked by Rachael W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aah! Truth dawns! (I just saw one of your other questions) You're a transsexual aren't you? God, I hope you are or I've just really REALLY pissed you off! Anyway. I think you are asking if you should tell or not and my answer is YES! Definitely, straight away. If they walk then they're not for you, but I'm sure no-one would want to be deceived to that extent and even if they really liked you I'm guessing they'd walk just to save face, so tell them and take the chance. I wish you all the luck in the world.
2006-09-21 10:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry my dear don't really understand your question. What show? Are you asking if you should tell a new love if you have had cosmetic surgery? If so, I don't see that it's anyone else's business. Would you "confess" that you're only slim because you're careful what you eat? Why would it matter? There are far more important issues to discuss in a serious relationship such as physical and financial health (i.e. if you are in serious debt and planning to live with or marry him, he needs to know), if you know you can't have children you need to find out if this matters to him - and so on. Cosmetic surgery is not really important.
2006-09-21 16:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I understand what you are saying, and yes it is wrong to keep secrets in a relationship if you expect that relationship to last. Secrets have a habit of coming out sooner or later, it would not be the secret that then split you up but the fact that you hid it from the other person !!!!!!!
2006-09-21 17:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is always the best it would come out at some point in a relationship he my want to marry u or to have children how would u explain yourself then
2006-09-21 16:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth? Definately dont understand a word you said.
2006-09-21 16:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind translating that into English?
2006-09-21 16:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um you mean like a bad scar or something...And not letting them see it...or something but now they have to....No you shouldnt have kept something from them....Just be honest and if they like you they like you...if they cant accept you for who you are than its not meant to be
2006-09-21 17:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they knew from the start thats ok, going in with eyes wide open and not being deceived, thinking of f***y but getting d**k
2006-09-21 16:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Raine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hu? I have absolutly no idea what your talking about. Wish I could help... Sorry.
2006-09-21 17:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be honest when you can...when you feel comfortable...Just make sure that it is safe for you to open up with your secret.
2006-09-21 16:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋