smoke cigarettes because he is afraid people will think I am a s l u t. I don't want to change...I like the way I dress and I do not want to stop smoking cigarettes right now...and I like him, what should I do?
2006-09-21 09:53:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
A true "awesome" guy would accept you the way you are! I'm not a smoker, but I was married to one. I didn't ask him to quit because that was him before I got with him. If you quit, do it for yourself. How you dress is really not as important as the way you carry yourself when you dress. I have sexy clothes when I go out, and business clothes at work and casual clothes for being at home and dressy clothes for formal parties, weddings , and funerals. Whatever I wear, I'm a lady-period. My fiance loves me in all those.
Sit your "awesome" guy down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If he sees your point of view and backs off, then he's really and "awesome" guy. If he gets defensive and/or angry and insists on you being the way he wants you, then Baby, that's just the tip of the iceberg and you're seeing the insecure side that will get worse and worse ( trust me, I've been there).
Keep on being you! If he doesn't love it, Mr. Right will! Good Luck!
2006-09-21 10:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by dct1218 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is a better answer than the one above, then I don't know of one. This girl deserves all of the best answer points. As for my answer, you really need to save this girl's message and follow it to the T. If you can't be yourself,who can you be? A sheep that follows the herd. You got to represent your femininity to the fullest. And the hell with what other people think! If they don't know, they can't grow. Be Yourself Sexy!
2006-09-21 10:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by G Money 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him he's a control freak! NO Marriage will ever last!!!!
Hopefully we're talking about tastful "sexy" dressing and not "slutty'" dressing! If you need to advertise your essentials in order to get dates then you have serious issues and he should drop you!
As for the smoking, why are you killing yourself and everyone around you? Give it up and get a life! You're not cool, you're stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 10:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, dont change for any guy. Although, quitting smoking wouldnt be a bad idea.
2006-09-21 10:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground and continue to do what you want right now. It is HIM that needs to decide what he wants to do!
2006-09-21 10:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋