k this guy i have been dateing hasn't talked to me in like a week and he's always to busy to hang out. should i leave him? or is there something i'm doing wrong?
2006-09-21 09:44:19 · 33 answers · asked by basketball_dancediva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him. come to me!
2006-09-21 09:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Al Bundy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mmkay..
This Is OBVIOUS.
If He's Not Going 2 Talk 2 You,Whats The Sense Of Even Bein' Together?
Maybe It Juss Wasn't Meant 2 Be.
Leave Him,Alright?
Take Advice From Someone Who Knows..
OR..
Ignore Him When/IF He Wants 2 Come Around You && Talk To You.
Give Him A Lil' Taste Of His Own Medicine.
2006-09-21 09:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by inurface012391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should just up and leave him like that but what you should do is talk to him about what's going on and how you feel and see what he says. Based on his response, attitude and the time that he gives you to talk to him, should tell you or show you if he really wants to be with you. If you're in a relationship and you claim to love or like a person nothing should ever come in the way of that and this is what you need to let him know. If he wants to be with you he would be with you no matter what. Don't blame yourself either because if you're doing everything right it's not your fault. Furthermore that's a long time to not talk to someone...so you need to ask him what's up because if he doesn't want in he needs to let you know instead of stringing you on. You deserve better than that!
2006-09-21 09:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation. The only thing you are doing wrong is worrying about what he is doing because I am sure he is not worrying about you. The best thing to do is give him his space and fill your time with things you like to do. Don't call him and if he calls you keep it short and get off the phone quickly. Believe me, he will come around.
2006-09-21 09:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Madam SupaStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out what he's busy doing. If it's something to do with his career, you know career comes first. Please don't get inbetween that. If it's something to do with volunteer work like at the church or boys/girls club, don't get in the middle. If it's time with his friends, they can wait because you're priority. Investigate first before you give him an ultimatum, it might not be worth it. Good luck.
2006-09-21 10:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your feelings telling you. if you really care for him then dont give up but if it is not some thing that you want to invest more time in the let him go. you should not let any guy stress you out and women have pretty good "instinks" so if you think somethings up it probably is?
2006-09-21 09:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i had dat problem too he didint have his prioriies straight but if yall are in love breaking up with him is the easy way out and i took that route and now we dont hardly talk and he doesnt act the same towards me. gurl just keep in there and let him know that he has a girl and he needs to start spending time with you if he really cares hell come around if not you know what to do
2006-09-21 09:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by BabyDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose not to leave him, then you are asking for the same old waiting game with him. Get used to being ignored by him. He'll have a lot of excuses available to make you wait for him.
2006-09-21 09:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by lg traveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasn't talked to you or even bothered to contact you then i think you should just leave him. maybe in his mind him not calling or anything is his way of leaving you. guys can be like that.
2006-09-21 09:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by girliegirl26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him what the deal is? why do you blame yourself? if you don't have alot invested in this relationship maybe you would be better off getting out of it.
if you have been together for awhile and have invested alot into this relationship try talking to him, tell him how you honestly feel.
2006-09-21 09:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should talk to him, and tell him how you feel about the whole situation and see what happens and if things remain the same then dump him and look for someone who will be there with you.
2006-09-21 10:02:04 · answer #11 · answered by marlen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋