Should I have a relationship with a guy in a different state even though I don't call him I just e-mail him?

Answer 1

If you feel as if you can be in a long distance relationship and only communicate via e-mail then go ahead and follow your mind. The problem is you might feel as if you can have a healthy long lasting relationship that way but can he do it and does he feel that way?

Answer 2

It's hard enough having a relationship with a person who is in the same state. You can't really get to know someone by typing words on a computer. People are complicated, there are many facets to a person that can only be learned by being around them. I alway tell my friend, "I listen to your WORDS, but I'm more impressed by what you DO". Meaning that a person can SAY I love you, the WORDS sound good, but you can only really tell how a person feels about you by the way that they TREAT you.

When you are in a relationship with a person that is conducted on a computer, or the phone, you only have WORDS. Even if you plan to get together, it would only be for brief periods of time, because of the distance. People are able to be on good behavior for short periods of time. You really don't know who they are. Be pen pals, it fun, less complicated, and your free to be with someone else who you can spend time with.

Answer 3

I have several friendships over the internet but a relationship? I don't think that's possible without meeting the person. I have chatted with three different women for almost 10 years now and from those chats alone I can tell that neither of them would be a match up for me in a relationship but we are still good friends.

Answer 4

No you should not. Tell me how can you have a relationship with someone in a different state you might be doing right but that doesn't mean he is. Just continue to be friends you date and let him date cause believe me it's not going to work, and all you do it e-mail him HELL NO it's not going to work.

Answer 5

I did that and the guy turned out to be very nice. (beware this is not always the case) It progressed to telephone calls but we never met. It eventually dwendelled off and we've both married since, but it was nice to have someone to re-enforce that not all men are pigs. He was a great guy but we were not right for each other. I say take it slow and enjoy your friend. But be careful with the information you give out too.

Answer 6

Girl, if you are asking then U have question about it so NO don't do it....for several reasons. No, No, No. ask yoursel how well do you know him?

By relationship I take it to mean sex...so long distance almost always NEVER works out. He can cheat (but then they do that when they are under your nose).

Something I just came to realize is that if I had known about vibrators and pleasing myself...I would have had LESS sexual partner.

Be friends with him BUT please take your time....at least a year or half a year before you have sex with him. God luck and God bless.

Answer 7

Yes, the relationship is called a Pen Pal. I have a Pen Pal in Mexico and all we do is email. I have no desire to ever meet her in person. We have exchanged photos though.

Answer 8

Yeah, a virtual friendship (that's a type of relationship). Anything else, what would be the point?

Answer 9

I would get to know him better, first. He could be someonje completly different and plus it wouldn't be a proper realationship, unless you at least talked to each other or maybe met up.

Answer 10

no that makes your life complicated and youll eventually get caught up everyhting in the dark comes to the light sweetie!