You can't change a tiger's stripes! Why do they feel that they can change a man or even feel the need to change him?
2006-09-21 09:40:26 · 25 answers · asked by Eldude 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because doesn't every woman like to have a man wrapped around there finger. She figures if she can change him, then she's set. Of course, now he's not that same person that she met however long before, that she was attracted to at first. No, now he's her puppet. And thats why men should try and find a woman that likes him for who he is because women like that will chew u up and spit u out and not have a conscience about it.
2006-09-21 09:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by penelope 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suppose some do want to change some things if those things cause problems in a relationship and CAN be changed. That would be the same for guys too. If youre going to be in a relationship...each has to be able to be flexible in order for the relationship to work.
Hanging out with the guys and partying, for example, while the gf or wife stays at home watching the kids alone, is not condusive to a relationship...that would be considered self centered behavior. Anyway, you know what I mean.
2006-09-21 09:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because "I see something in him the world just doesn' get. He trusts me and he behaves nicely when I'm around. He just has a few kinks but hey-don't we all. I mean I wouldn't give up on some one I love. Love can change people right? What is love but insanity with passion. He listens to me. He understands. We've progressed from strangers, and now see the treatment I get. It's wonderful." Little do we know that's as far as the progress goes.
the only way to change a person is to have that person want to change himself
2006-09-21 09:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Psychia22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should change a person.....But when your in a relationship each person gives a little. You might love baseball she might hate it so you give up a game to watch movies one night ... and likewise she'll go to a game with you because she knows it makes you happy ..... Relationships are all about compromise.... Should you change what you are absolutely not Nor should you accept someone who wishes you to... But wanting you to change and asking for a compromise are two different things... Make sure you understand which it is ....
2006-09-21 09:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need to change a man you should be going out with another guy then. You are not truly in love with your guy either than. You should walk out of the relationship. I can't believe that you are not satisfy with you guy.
2006-09-21 09:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by michelegokey2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess if the woman does want so many changes in the man then truly what does she love? Should you both evolve and change with growing up yes.
2006-09-21 09:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a woman feels she needs to change a man she does not accept him compeltely. either consiously or subconsiouly. they think they can change them bcu they want to and most women think they can get away with anything that they want ( now im not ur typical woman but even i think that way sometime) my advice tho if u have a woman and she wants to change u get out of the relationship cuz she dnt love u 4 who u are
2006-09-21 09:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they can love a man devotedly, can take care of him what no one can. She can give peace mentally by talking,touching,smiling...
She can make him cool and happy by physical power....
So she knows that she has something to give a man.And if she can give him something better than anything for him...so she got the right and power to change if she wish and needs to change man.
Am i right? Then Choose Best answer... ;-)
2006-09-21 09:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Russel Mehedi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls like to feel there man changed for them because it makes them feel special. For example, say I met a player, I will try my hardest to get him to settle down and if that happens, then I win over all his previous girls. That is idiotic to say the least, but it is true.
2006-09-21 09:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Madam SupaStar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it as changing a man,or women on that note. Think of it as two people merging views, thoughts, fellings together.
2006-09-21 10:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by kite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋