I've been an independent woman all my life. I've worked since I was 14 years old and basically taken care of myself. Never asked a guy for money even once. I am broke as hell, LOL. Should I stop being independent and be a gold-digger. I mean all gold-diggers don't give up the goodies so is this morally right to do if he offers and I accept and the cash is not in exhange for anything.
2006-09-21 09:36:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The is no such thing as free cash. Even if it is free it comes at a price. Little by little get you to do things or even addicted to things. Don't sink to the standards of others. You see beautiful women hang around men but never old ones. What happens to those women once they get older? They get replaced! You sound better than that.
2006-09-21 09:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i have been independent for many many yrs. and i don't like to ask for help at all. but if i am flat broke down and out i will ask for help. i don't think that makes you a gold digger if you are in trouble and need to pay your bills. if you have someone willing to help you out in a time of need and expects nothing back take the help if you need it and offer to repay it back at a later date even if it has to be made in payments. but if you are just tired of being miss independent then i guess if you can get away with being a gold digger and it won't bother you... go for it
2006-09-21 16:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by julieaj917 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what a golddigger is and then decided if you realy want to be a gold digger.Bbecause most gold digger is not all about having sex or just taking what a man give them.
2006-09-21 16:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. You don't have to be a gold-digger to get a financially healthy guy.
Successful men like independent women who are not interested in them for their bucks.
2006-09-21 16:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful, I am the same, always independent, etc. I found a man and thought it might be fun for him to be my sugar daddy. When I first met him, he bought me everything...long story short, he sold the business he owned and decided that he didn't feel like being a part of the work force anymore. I ended up supporting him and going into massive debt. Just be careful who you choose!
2006-09-21 16:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I wish I could be a gold digger, I mean I could but my conscience would just eat me alive! I guess my morals wouldn't let me do that. But I have seen many women who have it made, money, diamonds, cars, etc...But are they really happy? And are they even in love?
2006-09-21 16:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A distinction without difference . You're still making money in the sex trade.
2006-09-21 16:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW stay independent... work harder idk.. but lowering urself to be a gold-digger is not such a good idea.. being with a guy for money it bad too
2006-09-21 16:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Aris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I personally would decide against it, if I need money, I could get it myself. But, you gotta do what you gotta do to survive in the world. Do what you have to, I guess.
2006-09-21 16:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try anything once. You've got nothing to lose.
2006-09-21 16:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋