I've found that if you dont care about the relationship they do and if you care about the relationship they dont whats the deal with girls liking the guys that treat them the worst but not the guy that just enjoys being with them?
2006-09-21 09:28:05 · 14 answers · asked by Justin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not that they like men who treat them badly, it is that the conditioning that they,we, have been subjected to througout our formative years and beyond has taught us that a woman should look for a man who is tough enough to protect them. One who is daring enough to provide them with excitemnet of the instinctual urge to be hit over the head and dragged to the cave.Women yearn for the man who will sweep them off their feet with adventure, daring situations and danger. Modern life and times has enough information through mass media that they see that there are options to the age old precepts of relationships. That confuses both genders in relationships. Why do you think that the majority of women don't prefer to date or even consider the guys with the pocket protectors and the thick glasses? They don't represent the stereotype of the man they have been conditioned into considering the best mate! Some women never break out of the mold and have bad relationships all their lives. Other women have sense enough to consider the options that will at least minimize the risks.
Most of the questions on this forum can be narrowed down to one of the things I have just said. The problems that keep arising here are directly related to the social conditioning most of us are not willing to accept has done us a great deal of harm but either don't know how to adjust or don't care to.
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2006-09-21 10:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who was like this until the guy just stop coming around. Then again it is still on and off.
You can be the finest women in the world and still get treated like dirt. Its all about not settling for less. Girls like bad boys, and me I just don't understand it. If you let it be known in the beginning on how you wanted to be treated then it might have went another way instead of settling cause he has money or a nice flashy car, He has golds in his mouth with crooked teeth. I mean this is true.
Some girls like being talked to crazy, don't know how to act with a good man. When they have a good man they use him. They love these thugs and gangstas/wanna be. So don't try to understand you never will just like me.
2006-09-21 09:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by mona75243 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK, maybe it is because they do not like being in control, Maybe some women find it attractive when a man can take contol. Shows what kind of a man they really are. In some instances women who have been in a long relationship with a mna find it hard to just get up one day and leave. Than there are those who just don't give a f**k have low self asteem. and can't find the courage to tell their man how they really feel for the fear of getting the S**t beaten out of them.
2006-09-21 09:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by wrestlinguy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of times people want what they cant have. not EVERY girl is like that, but you may be the type of guy who is attracted to girls like that. I was like that, and i found that alot of times girls go for guys who treat them the same as their dads, so if they have an absent father that they have to beg for his attention, then they expect that out of a relationship with a guy too.
2006-09-21 09:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by *Cole* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to find the right girl if u look at my profile u will see that i am very romantic and in love, care about them with all ur heart and never let them go that is what i feel with a guy who i love but he does not love me anymore:( anyway girls just want to be respected u will find ur princess someday just never give up
by the way i am 16 years old
2006-09-21 09:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that they like guys who treat them badly, it's usually that they are stuck in the relationship for a variety of reasons: poor self-esteem, fear of being alone, someone is better than no one, etc...
2006-09-21 09:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's how they were raised they were raised to feel that in order to be "someone" they have to be a victom... it's just a habit from birth all it takes is some will power self esteem and maybe a motiviationa speaker or somthing it's just an oldhabit and it's there comfort zone.
Mad luv
2006-09-21 09:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is true that you arrtract company that reflects how you feel about yourself. If you feel good about yourself and you're positive and self loving, you will attract company who feels the same way about themselves and will give their positvity and love to you. If you hate yourself and have low self esteem, then your company will be hateful and encourage your low self esteem. It all starts from within.
2006-09-21 09:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like being treated like a princess....
2006-09-21 09:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but I have a guy that adores me and I adore him.
2006-09-21 09:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋