the past few years have been lonley no dating sex or anything ,i love my kids but i dont wanna spend this christmas alone agian how long is it ok to be alone
2006-09-21 09:23:28 · 15 answers · asked by Heather and baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whenever you are ready to date again, do it!
2006-09-21 09:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it takes, would you really want to spend time with someone simply because it is a warm body? Being alone is not the end of world. Learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company and others will pick up on that. Quality people that you actually want to spend time with will appear.
2006-09-21 16:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to criticize you in any way, and I do understand what your saying. But you are not alone you are with your children. For this year why don't you invite some friends over. Then you can start looking for someone to date hopefully it will be someone both you and your children like. That is very important you are not just looking for yourself your also looking for them. I no I'm saying things you already know but I had to say them any way. Men around children that are not there's always bothers me. But kids have away of knowing who's right and who not so talk to them.
2006-09-21 16:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even understand your question just try to be an open person and a bit strait to the poing and that you have to be out there if you are looking for some body to look for you not to wait at home and expect to find some one cause you wont
2006-09-21 16:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' O K to be along as long as you want to. Now it's time to get on with your life. Your a very important person give your self a change and find someone or let someone find you. BE HAPPY.
2006-09-21 16:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by lilymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your feeling extremely lonely then you need to go out and meet somebody. start interacting with people and dating again. maybe this time you will find the right one. nobody deserves to be alone, especially on the holiday. theres somebody out there for everybody!
2006-09-21 16:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to spend time with your friends or go out and make friends and even find someone to pass your life with..... try to find love again and have fun... by finding a guy to share love between you guys that doesn't mean that you don't love your kids... you can spend time all together
2006-09-21 16:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to date ,u need some one 2 b with u when ur kids grow up and leave
2006-09-21 16:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Peaches& Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody need somebody and you need to have you a man in your life.I know that you love your kids but you need to have some fun on your spare time.
2006-09-21 16:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to be alone forever, if that's what you want. it sounds like it's not.
go out and have fun. you will meet new people. ask your friends to set you up. join in the holiday festivities. you'll get out more if you start by getting out more ;)
2006-09-21 16:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by ashley f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are comfortable and until you find the right person to be in your life.
2006-09-21 16:27:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋