we (both are 28)have been dating each other for 2 years now. He is a good man, intelligent man. I am sure he is looks oriented,he wants me to be perfect.I am doing my best to come upto his expectation.Its a long distance.I travel to meet him all the time as I miss him and love him.He does not really like if i meet other guy. But he never say he will marry me or anything. He gets angry very easily and feels that I am not good. But later he himself will cool down and talk to me. But when he will be angry, it's a painful time for me. He says many things which I am not.He always feels that I had many bf earlier and I had sex with all of them. I have never done such things in my life.I have told him about it all the time. I am not sure if he trust that. I can do anything to prove that, have no idea if I can do that.For every hot conversation he says I always do mistakes, and he cant tolerate me. He had many gf in his life.He takes care of me when in good mood.But 4 small mistakes he scolds.
2006-09-21 09:14:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would walk away from this guy, he is already showing signs of being an abuser. He should be looking out for you at all times, not just when you are happy. You will be much better off without him.
2006-09-21 09:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by flashypsw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a controlling freak. You would do much better to move on because you cannot change him nor will you ever be able to change to meet his expectations. Get out now will hurt but the pain will be much less now than later.
2006-09-21 09:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by sappergary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is cheating on you. If he thinks your cheating he's the one cheating. This guy doesn't love you. Sorry to say but your wasting your time and your gas money. Move on and find yourself someone that will love you for you and not want to change you. There is so much better men out there. Good luck!
2006-09-21 09:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, again, dump him, one more time, dump him. You are worth more, he sounds controlling. Please, you may not meet his expectations, but I'm quite sure you meet someone else. He is not the last man standing, there are a million more.
2006-09-21 09:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's not there then move on.
2006-09-21 09:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋