I like two guys at once. One of them had lead me on for a long time. He played me and was always mean to me. There is this other guy who is nice, sweet and funny. I know that I should go for the sweet one but the other one has been there for a really long time. Which one should I choose? Should I choose the sweet guy or the other guy. If I choose the sweet guy how can I get over the one who was really mean to me.
2006-09-21 09:06:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know how to help make up your mind.
find out why the other one is mean to you .....
you'll know for sure after that
2006-09-21 09:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by mimi c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is where girls get their baggage (dating the WRONG guy) and when they find someone later in life, they have been twisted by such an experience and lead him on and play games as a subconscious vengence on men. Don't ruin yourself and the next ten guys you date. Go for the nice one. Damn kids!
2006-09-21 16:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try the sweet guy, but watch out it is probably only skin deep. What do you have to loose? This happened to me and I chose the nice, sweet girl and now she is my wife.
2006-09-21 16:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump the guy who is being mean to you. Shouldn't the minimum requirement for a boyfriend be that he is nice to you? I would never date someone who is not nice to me. Trust me, there is no future with a guy that is not being nice to you. Why not dump him now, rather than wait for him to dump you down the road after you already gave up the nice guy.
2006-09-21 16:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by bb80266 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u want to be with someone that is going to be mean to u then go for it, but i would go for the nice sweet one. well it will be hard to get over the one who is mean to u but it will take time u cant just get over someone over night, but eventually u will get over him
2006-09-21 16:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be in any relationships right now, you should be getting counselling to see why you would even want a mean guy. Give your head a shake at even asking this question.
2006-09-21 16:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by flashypsw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you put urself thru it ?? why be with some one who has NO respect for you and other females ? you would only being showing by your actions that it is ok for him or any other guy to treat you as they please... stand up for urself and all the other young girls, and do NOT let them treat you whcih ever way they feel like it..... listen to your heart on this one..... God bless
2006-09-21 16:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he was mean then its a quick brush off the shouldas and move on, personally i know you gonna pick the mean one cause nice guys finish last
2006-09-21 16:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for both ^^
2006-09-21 16:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋