i cheated with someone i knew b4 him, and i didn't know how serious we were gonna be. He already talks about marriage and i love him ive always loved him. i just wasn't over the last guy, i dont know what to do should i tell him?
2006-09-21 08:52:54 · 13 answers · asked by jennie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
havent we seen you on the jerry springer show
2006-09-21 08:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by soldierof the 82ndAirborne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I am totally against cheating and its very hard to forgive someone that has done that to me. If you love him, why did you cheat on him? Just because you weren't over the last guy, doesn't mean anything. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you aren't over the last one. That is what ruins the next relationship. Why are you asking this question 8months later? If its been a good relationship and you love him, then don't tell him. If you do, it might go real sour, but be careful. I believe in Karma.
2006-09-21 08:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you trashy and insecure and will buy any line that a guy throws your way. My suggestion would be to break up with your man so that he can meet someone who's more of an adult and less like a child. Once you do that then you should live the single life together because I'm sure this is the first in a long line of cheating you'll be doing in your lifetime.
2006-09-21 09:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are really serious about each other and are talking about marriage and spending your lives together then you need to tell him. He has a right to know what has happened and if you two really love each other and want to spend your lives together you will find a way to work past it.
2006-09-21 08:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you waited a little too long on this one...
I think its unfair not to tell him. On the bright side if you do tell him and you work it out id say its a good sign for strength of the relationship. That's a big if though as trust will be severely dampened. Good luck
2006-09-21 08:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Skiball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep test him and see if he can take it, cause it was within the first month, thats like a grace period, you were still not locked into a relationship... and now picture him saying the exact same **** to you, and seee how you would react, cause I know I wouldn't be happy if a girl was like I wasn't a virgin... cause i know that is mine, I own your coochie girl, u best not be giving it up while Im around... lol jk
2006-09-21 08:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl listen to me dont ever tell him. I made that mistake with my bf. I told him 3yrs ago and up to this day he throws it in my face. I know u want to be honest and so did i, but they never foget. Cause they will think about things that the guy did to you and it will hurt them especially if he loves you. Please dont make that mistake, i wish i never told my bf, and now he still dont trust me. but im working on it.
2006-09-21 09:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by Oh Boy!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for him to leave you. If does not leave, he will likely have diffculties trusting you. Either way it does not seem like a very ideal relationship.
2006-09-21 08:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by badgoodgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what you want, Don't do this any more, this stuff follows you, You need to forget about it, and leave it alone!! The only person you need to ask for forgiveness is God, take it to God, and leave it their.
2006-09-21 09:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fu do tell him tell him before you all get married give him that choice to decide on his own to say or leave if not its probably going to bother u and that can cause a strain in you all relationship.
2006-09-21 09:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything.
however for your own concience.....if it was not established as a relationship at the time you were with the other fellow, then it's not cheating. calm down.
2006-09-21 08:56:22 · answer #11 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋