I am 22 years old and am an office manager, making good money and doing well i went to college right after high school, remodeled my room, etc. Basically i am doing well. I am only child and my dad at first was kinda racist. but has definetly calmed that down because i am dating a 34 yr. old man (mexican) but hes not ur typical mexican i guess you can call it. he loves me and puts me on a super high pedistal i admit not perfect seeing im taurus and hes scorpio we tend to bump heads lil bit at times. i love hime and am attached to him. my mom suspected being just friends are up each others butts all the time, etc. etc. so she asked finally and i told her figure it out she is not stupid ya know. i knew she thought it but never wanted to believe it. well now as of today she knows and of course said well i am not helping you with anything any more dont ask for nothing cuz i dont want no help apparently for lowering myself. this hurt and feels so so wrong. it does not change my feeelings
2006-09-21 08:37:51 · 8 answers · asked by Heather P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
okay...lets go back to the first four words in this statement.....you are 22.....as of last year, you are considered old enough to drink......and help yourself. why are you worried about your mom not being able to help you? it is your life. dont let it hurt your feelings or hurt your relationship. she will either get over it or keep stepping. either way, you still are the only person you have to answer to at the end of the day.
2006-09-21 08:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your mom's point of view get you down. Within time when she sees how great and happy you two are as a couple she will change her mind. You just have to prove to her that you can make it. I'm sure she is just angry but seems to accept this guy some what its worth.
You did say that you have a good job you went to college and your doing pretty good, Then why would you need her help anyway. Just prove to her that things will be fine and you will get the better half!
2006-09-21 08:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That a stereo type typical mexican??/ maybe you are racist also just had to point that out its learned behavior from your parent I guess (everyones diffrent dont generalize a race the media lets you see what they want you to see on a race)
2006-09-21 08:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by sam a 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try and talk to your mom. Tell her what a wonderful guy he is and see if she will at least try to get to know him. You are old enough to make your own decisions when it comes to dating. Hopefully she will come to accept it.
2006-09-21 08:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother thinks less of you because you are dating a hispanic???
sounds like she has a personal problem.
at 22...you shouldn't be asking your mom for any help anyway. so no one loses.
2006-09-21 08:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would your question be????? You are 22... do you live with your parents? If so move out.... date who you wish...
2006-09-21 08:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you mother think that you could do better in the guys department. may be she doesn`t like mexican
2006-09-21 08:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so.... what is the question???????????
2006-09-21 08:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋