I have almost no experiences with girls.
Can you give me advices on "do"s and "don't"s on asking a girl out?
I want the random bits and pieces of information on making the girl to go out with me.
What are the things girls like? What do girls expect from the guys?
Does the look matter to the girls?
Write any information, free, as much advices as possible.
2006-09-21 08:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls like when you hold thier hand and open the dorr for them. Pay for her meal, entertainment, etc. Kiss on the cheek or forehead. These are the things that girls like n expect from guys. Looks matter to girls.. But not a whole lot. Usually looks aren't a whole lot, but clothes make a difference. The do's of asking a girl out: ask her to go for a walk, out for coffee, out for a picnic, out for a festival/carnival/fair situation. Ask her to get a bite to eat. Say that you would like to get to know her a little better over a hot chocolate or something. Find out her interests, then surprise her by saying that you like one of the things that she likes. She will most likely feel more comfortable around you if you two have something in common, and something to talk about.
don't ask her to sleep with you, or spend the night, or go for a car ride, or go to a bar... those aren't good. Don't kiss her on the lips on a first date unless she makes the move-hold her hand... put your hand on her back, not her ***, or her other areas. Be appropriate, and she might go out with you.
Good luck with this, I hope that my info helped you a little bit..!
2006-09-21 08:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more atainable you are, the less likely you will be attained. Sounds odd doesn't it? But it's true.
In otherwords, don't go out looking for a g/f. Just go out, have fun, hang out with your MALE friends (do not develop a long list of female friends that you hope will eventually see how good you are. This is a surefire way to stay single and miserable.) You have to give the impression (and the best way to do this is to actually live it) that you do not need a woman in your life. You are happy and fulfilled, have a lot of love to give, but only to the right woman, and if she never comes along, then that's ok too.
Whatever you do, do it with PASSION. Find a hobby and pursue it with wreckless abandon.
2006-09-21 08:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Manny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do's and Don'ts...hmm well there are lots. Pay attention to details when they talk and remember a few of them. Bring them up in conversation next time and they will notice more than you think. Be an active participant in the conversation, eye contact, asking questions, be prepared with any of your own opinions. We are rarely asked questions because people are so consumed with themselves, so when we hear that someone wants to KNOW something about us, its a huge turn on. You'll never be able to figure out what women want becasue we are all different and we change our minds the second we make them up. My best advice is to be firm in who you are and try not to adjust yourself to make a girl like you. You will only confuse yourself and give yourself unneeded anxieties. When asking a girl out be direct. Never beat around the bush. If you want to take her out, you have to ask her. Point blank. She isn't a mind reader, just as you aren't. Wouldn't you like it if someone asked you a plain yes or no question? If she gives an excuse as to why she can not, dont' be pushy, accept it and try again. If she refuses multiple times, either change your strategy or give up. Hope it helps and Good luck!!
2006-09-21 08:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by boykin0308 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her laff, works all the time, try saying hunni if I was a flie I'd be all over you coz your the ****! or go up to her drop an ice cube then step on it, say thats the ice broken hi I'm >enter name<
also do a google for chat up lines, your be amamzed
Good luck mr
2006-09-21 08:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Loverboi007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a nice person....dress nicely but not like formal...just dont wear the clothes that you slept in or something....girls expect guys to be faithfull and to respect them....do that and you'll have girls coming to you! :)
2006-09-21 08:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T'S! !
~Never ask her how much she ways
DO'S
~compliment her
~her clothes
~tell her she looks pretty today and everyday
and the rest comes naturally
2006-09-21 08:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by The Hot Latin Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is some great advice, "Only date one at a time!"
2006-09-21 08:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stare...look into her eyes and tell the truth!
2006-09-21 08:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wine and dine...and buy her nice gifts.. she will love u for it.lol
2006-09-21 08:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Niecy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stare!!!
2006-09-21 08:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋