I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship that i knew was doomed from the start. It detoriorated more & more, so it wasn't really a shock when it ended.The guy was an *** & I recognize it. The truth is it's been detoriating so long that it doesn't hurt anymore that we're not together.But man!The sex was so good. & i miss it way too much for my own good.Recently we ended bitterly bcuz the guy is very immature & started to get jealous even tho we were just friends & sleeping together.This was about 2 weeks ago bcuz i kicked him out of my house bcuz he came with stories his roomie told him about a profile i have online & he came accusing me of being a slut.He was the one thru the entire realtionship wanting to be single, yet the minute we were friends he was being an a*s.He couldn't deal with us seeing other people and being each other's friends with benefits.But i texted him yester. &called him 2x at 1 in the a.m cuz i was missing the sex.No resp. yet. Weird. What do i think?
2006-09-21 08:32:44 · 8 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's strange a guy like him wouldn't respond to a booty call. And i am a bit resented he hasn't. I mean who does he think he is? I guess i should respect him if he doesnt want anything to do with me, but it doesn't seem he would do that. We had broken many times when we were together and when i called him for a booty call he cme right away. Im sure he has no one else. Is he playing games? I dont know what to think. I know I should just move on as far as the sex goes. But there is nothing wrong with some seconds till i find someone else is there?
2006-09-21 08:35:26 · update #1
im just wondering why he's not responding. Not whether or not I should call him. Because whats done is done. I won't be calling him again. But i really just wanted to see what he would do and i never expected him not to respond!!! could it be he moved on? Surprise!
2006-09-21 08:46:32 · update #2
I think if you continue to have sex with him you are just going to lead him on. You need to make a clean break from him.
2006-09-21 08:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop while ur ahead or ur never going to find someone else. As long as you keep calling him for sex he knows that you're still weak for him. A guy shouldn't know ur weakness becuz once he do he uses that against you to get his way. It works everytime with anyone. Next time you feel the need for him, don't call him at all, just fight it. You'll feel better emotionally, but not sexually. You'll feel respected and that's what you want. So leave that loser alone!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 15:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i first started reading your question, I thought you really wanted to figure out what you should do. It sounds as if you are quite happy with the condition as long as you are able to get the good s*x. You need to value yourself according to how you expect to be valued. If you value yourself as friends with benefits, that is just the type of clients you will attract, people who do not want to commit, all the want is what you can offer and then leave. I understand your feelings of wanting to have that good *** with this guy, but in brutal honesty, thats just why people get escorts a prostitutes, to get the little something they really want. Think long and hard about what you want to be and how you want to be treated and then say to yourself, should I get back with this guy for gratification or should I walk away and keep my self-respect. That decision is up to you.
2006-09-21 15:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by sharptech101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u loved the sex, from an abbussive relationship...? is that right, stop me if Im wrong, so you tried calling him again after you started seeing another guy as friends with beni's... hmmm well that sounds like he doesn't like that fact that you could move on, Im suprised when you first broke up you went and got some fresh dickk within the hour that wasn't abussive, plus the fact that he still cares about being a controlling ***, sounds like a winner... go for it Im not gonna try and stop you from amking horrable decisions thats not my job, I only point them out, so have a great weekend
2006-09-21 15:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only good option would be for you to cut ALL ties. No text messages, no booty calls...NO contact whatsoever. I don't care how good the sex was (there will be others out there just as good if not loads better) it is not worth any form of abuse.
2006-09-21 15:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good 4 u getting out if you're going 2 be just friends don't sleep w/them...newsflash he's not needing ur booty cause he's been cheating all along........is that Folgers I smell
2006-09-21 15:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck!!! Sleeping with an abusive ex!!! Get your head examined!
2006-09-21 15:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find someone else to be your booty call. he's a jealous person, you don't want another drama after you find someone else.
2006-09-21 15:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋