an abortion ?
2006-09-21 08:27:08 · 39 answers · asked by ☺ 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
My Mom DID have an abortion, so I would have had another sibling. I was quite young when she told me, so I don't really remember. I would think if I don't remember, it never really bothered me. Of course, she had been told by her doctor that there was only a 50/50 chance that she would survive the birth. She decided it was better to be there for her other three children than to chance not being there for four.
2006-09-21 08:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by cey12000 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Be sympathetic. Your poor Mom made an agonizing choice and probably still feels the guilt which may explain why she told you. I am sure she had very valid reasons for doing such a drastic thing - could have been to give you the best life she could. Even if you oppose abortion, remember that she is your mother and she loves you. Family should forgive one another and support each other through the toughest situations.
2006-09-21 08:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Signilda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Again everyone has a past. She made her choice for whatever reason. I would not tell my children though unless they specifcally asked or if I thought it would be of some benefit to them. And as I said before I think you need to try and relax, at the end of the day you have no right to try and influence people go in peace and live your own life, and people will live theirs. It does not affect you directly.
2006-09-21 22:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it really is merely my oppinion: i do not imagine it concerns in case your mom cant be domicile because she works one of those massive volume of jobs, or is unmarried, or in penal complicated, or no longer residing: you care on your kinfolk as a lot and as in many circumstances as you could. If it truly is on you to look after your little siblings, they see you do not opt to. So no longer in reality is their mom too busy operating to save up with them in the hot day, even with the indisputable fact that the 2d human being would not even opt to. It also shows them that they do no longer ought to assist out at the same time as they are older in the experience that they "dont sense like it", it truly is a situation in case you inquire from me. it really is merely me, I come from a tightknit kinfolk and plan on elevating mine that way. We continually positioned eachother first no count number what.
2016-11-23 13:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by hillhouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id be kinda glad i dont got another annoying sibling to bother me. i would understand why. my mom was about 15 or 16 when she got pregnant wit my brother. so if she got pregnant wit another baby any earlier than that, i can totally understand why shed get an abortion.
2006-09-21 08:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont know i guess it depends what the reasons were i mean was the baby in poor health etc or could she not afford to raise another or did she just think i dont want any more in the end it was her choice so i guess id feel sad confused and probably on some level angry im sorry x
2006-09-21 08:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by leanne_on_line 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be sad because I might think that my mom regretted having the abortion and she could not change that.
But don't feel responsible for your mom. She made her decision. And I really do not think she is trying to make you feel bad unless she is somehow saying it angry.
2006-09-21 08:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would tell my mom that I understood why she made the choice. So I am guessing that you are just on here to try and make others feel bad. Well its not working. This is a form of Spam and I am reporting you. Thou shall not judge others. Does that sound familiar?
2006-09-21 08:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Hopefully I would answer with intelligence and openess. Hopefully I would illustrate a willingness to put myself in her feet and walk the miles she walked. I would try to understand that it was her choice and she had her reasons, ones I could most probably never understand since they are not my own.
2006-09-21 08:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by cuedainyag 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
how would you react to your mom telling you that you would have had fifteen more siblings if she has started popping them out at age 14 and had one every year forever? Which one is more responsible?
2006-09-21 08:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋