We havent talked in about almost more than a week but and for some reason I know that we arent going to talk again. I dont know for what reason though. I havent made an effort to call because everytime I do it is worthless. He's never mean or rude to me but I know that it is over. I dont think of him as much as I used to I am really getting over him but at night before going to bed I cant seem to stop thinking about him and it is only at bed time. During the day I am fine I dont even try to glance a thought of him. I miss his calls at that time the most. Is it possible for him to have forgotten about me.
2006-09-21 08:19:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the whole mopin and waiting by the phone ... then not receiving any calls doesn't work enough for you then you need to get up... GET DRESSED, call up the girls and party!!! They'll definately help especially with the situation you're in. He has not forgotten about you ... he probably won't ever, hell he's probably just as hurt as you are but he's trying to be strong.
2006-09-21 08:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't forget about him because he's all you know right now. He's your husband and you've got history, but that's all you have now and it's doing nothing for you but adding stress to your life. You do have kids together, but they'll get a chance to see him. You should talk to your children and give them a chance to voice their opinion. Is divorce an option? I can see why you would yearn for him at night because that's the time when you two were more intimate and nobody likes to sleep alone. But you have to look beyond that and try to take your mind off him at nite by reading or having your kids sleep with you. It may sound wierd, but sometimes those things work.
2006-09-21 08:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I seen your posting and had to answer. Well I understand that you have not spoken to him. Is there a real reason to why he has not called you? If you have just met him and already had sex with him than that could be it. Know that men do not respect women who have sex with them easily. I am not saying that you have had sex with him, just know if you did and it was to soon than that's why he wont call back. Besides if he can't be man enough to call you and let you know what's up, then you really don't want him anyways. He's acting like a little boy, that's if he is over 18. Get over him let him go there are to many good guys out there for you to be tripping over one.
Take care,
Trey
2006-09-21 08:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Trey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably only think of him at those times because that is when a person can be the lonliest. If you were with another guy you'd probably think more of him at those times too.
2006-09-21 09:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to work on your mind, Do not waste one ounce of your time and energy, on him.. learn how to let go, and leave it their.At bed time, start to think of the type of men you want to meet. when he comes into your mind, push him out and think of Mr. Right!!
2006-09-21 08:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 05:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he's forgotten you or not (although it's unlikelly) but if he's moved on with his life, you need to also...don't let someone rent space in your head or heart for free...
2006-09-21 08:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋