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my bf really wants me to go down on him, and i really want to also. but im nervous cuz i never have done that before. so whats the BEST way to go. be extremely detailed so i know exactly what to do pleaseee and thank u. i hafta know everything! i want it to be great for him. help me out?

2006-09-21 08:05:02 · 36 answers · asked by kforkaratechop 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

actually we're both virgins and we've been together for 2 years and he wants to ask my parents if he can marry me. im of age thx

2006-09-21 08:12:12 · update #1

36 answers

this makes my boyfriend go crazy...1st.. i kiss him (regularly) on the lips..then i move to his neck..then slowly move towards his chest..then slowly again move towards his stomach and kiss around his stomach for a little bit...then move slowly towards his( i think pelvic bone) not his hip bone but the bone closer to his (cough) ...anyways so.. right when your near "it" kiss slowly to make him go crazy.. b/c your so close to "it" he'll be like oh my god..b/c your not there yet.. so then.. you go to that special place..and do your job..umm just think of a lollipop.. seriously it sounds silly but i did when i first did it. just try not to gag yourself..its not comfortable. focus mainly on the "head" and then suck LIGHTLY!!! not too light..but you'll know how light..that..and just taking you tounge and pressing against the side of his "thingy" lol sorry i dont like to type that "word".. anyways when you have "it" in your mouth just go up and down slowly..make sure you put your lips over your teeth..teeth hurts them.. so.. after dont press so hard on it with your lips b/c it hurts them and they will turn bright *** red when your done. hope i helped alittle.. ummm have fun? good luck sweetie

2006-09-21 08:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by beth-y 2 · 0 0

Every guy is different on how they like oral sex. He knows you have never done it, so he will be more then willing to show you what he likes. The best way is to start kissing him and then just move down the body with little kisses til you get there. But don't be nervous. He will help you out. Good luck, and Don't use your teeth unless HE tells you too! Only a small amount of guys like you to use your teeth. Have fun!!!

2006-09-21 08:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by nalerij 3 · 2 0

Honestly just tell your guy that you've never done it before and then just go with the flow. He'll let you know if you're doing something right and he'll also let you know if you're doing something wrong. The number one rule is don't use any teeth otherwise it truly just depends on the guy. Listen to his moans and groans and you'll figure it out. I mean think about it we were all oral virgins at one point or another. Don't be scared and good luck.

2006-09-21 08:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 2 0

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2016-10-17 09:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The wording gives me a strong suspicion that the asker is a guy who just wants to read titillating material. Anyway, just in case I'm wrong...

... Anything you do will feel good, as long as you don't use teeth and you don't squeeze testicles. Different guys like different things, so ask him what he likes best.

2006-09-21 08:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0 0

The main thing is to enjoy doing it - and let him see that you enjoy doing it too. Go slow and let him guide you to what he likes. Watch your teeth, lots of eye contact and use your tongue around the head...

Good luck - it just takes practice, no one can really tell you how it's done.

2006-09-21 08:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0 0

The more important ingredient in fellatio is enthusiasm. If he can see that you are having a good time, he will have a good time. Everything else can be learned by just asking your lover what he likes.

2006-09-21 08:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1 0

DONT DO IT. The very best way to go is to wait. This is something should you ever do it should be with your life partner. You dont really know at this stage who that will be. Your bf could also leave you and then you could end up humiliated.

2006-09-21 08:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by concerned mom 1 · 0 1

my sister did this once, I still think its funny but take a hot dog, and if he bigger then a hot dog, then find something as big as he is and start sucking on it, remember if you see bad teeth marks on it then thats not good, a little teeth some guys like, also remember to think its like a lolipop as well, just do not chomp on it, and remember to play with his balls as well, make sure you give them guys some attention as well, but I would agree with most ask him to guide you, most guys love it when they make you do things they want, its more of a turn on for them, good luck!

2006-09-21 08:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0 0

i had the same problem that you did. i was nervous and i didnt know how to actually perform that kind of act.

the best way to satisfy him is to cover your teeth with your tongue as much as possible...teeth arent really something they like to feel.
go slowly and try to be as lubricated as possible.

hope this helped.

2006-09-21 08:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by sheldaan 2 · 0 0

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