i saw my dad wife with a anther man should i tell my dad?

Answer 1

Yes, I wish someone would have told me when my EX HUSBAND was cheating on me, especially if it's a sexual relationship. People die now from partners cheating. I believe if you talk to her first, she will have time to cover her tracks with herself & the one she's cheating with, if indeed she's cheating. Hopefully you have a good relationship with your dad & you you can start the conversation
with does Mom have a male friend that she goes to (where ever you saw them)? Now is this your Mom or step-mom. If it's your real Mom, them yea go to her first, talk with her, then take it from there.
Hope your ok honey I know how hard this must be for you. Let us know if you can.

Answer 2

This is hard. Depends on what type of hold she has on your father, if you tell, this could work against you. Meaning if she is conniving and sneaky, she will deny it till death and just try and turn your dad against you. Depends on how strong of a relationship you have with your dad. Be very careful with this one. You may have to be eye spy...gather enough information until you have a solid case. Then slam her...lol.

Answer 3

yes you should tell your dad only if you have seen your mom with another guy for sometime & seeing her kissing him out in public or see her driving off with him & she hasn't come home until very late or until the next morning. my mom ended up ending her marriage because of cheating that was done to her after 22 yrs of being married to my scum bag of a dad.

Answer 4

I think you need to talk to her and tell her that you have seen her with someone else and if she doesn't come clean you will tell your dad.. you should find out how she deals with the situation before you go running to dad..

Answer 5

First I would talk to her and let her know what you saw. Explain that she needs to be the one to tell your dad. But if she doesnt then you will. Give her the choice and hopefully she'll be a woman about it and tell him herself. I think he would rather hear it from her than his daughter. But if comes down to it then you should tell her.

Answer 6

I saw my mommy kissing Santa Claus once!
I don't know what a dad wife is though.

Answer 7

Pray about it, first. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you discern what is right--if you are supposed to tell your dad, the Holy Spirit will help you. Perhaps you should tell your dad's wife you know, and give her the option of telling your Dad. Pray!
I'll keep you and your family in my prayers!

Answer 8

uh YES....if you want whats best for him...you know she'll keep doing that and nobody deserves to be cheated on.
Whats really good,especially if you dont care for her, is say something in front of her and your dad...just say hey I saw you at "whereever" the other day..I was gonna stop and say hi but it looked like you were busy...and leave it at that and see what she says...She'll know she was busted...

Answer 9

yeah but do you mean sexually? or just out w/a friend? b/c u dont wanna stir anything up if its nothing - now sexually or more then friensd, yeah tell him in a heart beat & dont hold back, hes your father! but if u arent sure & you jus saw her socially out w/someone, i would jus go up to him & b like oh hey dad i saw ___ (whateevr her name is) out at blah blah today with some friends, like its really nothing - and he will most likely just say to her something havin to do with that & she will either confess or maybe it ws nothing

Answer 10

First of all you need to ask her who was that man I saw you with? before you start jumping to conclusions, and if she starts getting all huffy, and starts to make all kinds of excuses, then it is time to get your dad involved. or just keep your eye on her.