Would you have a problem with him going to other rooms with guys to play poker and drink beer when he's two hours away. Take into consideration that you come straight home from work and stay home all night.
2006-09-21 07:22:34 · 7 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to go straight home to let HIS dog out.
2006-09-21 07:32:17 · update #1
He works away and stays in a motel during the week, he can't stay home.
2006-09-21 07:33:49 · update #2
nope, if he is playing cards and drinking beer thats OK, but if he is going to drive afterwards or there are girls involved there is a reason for some concern. tell him how you feel.
2006-09-21 07:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? Are you just feeling lonely and ignored, or are you worried that he is cheating on you.
If its the former, then you need to let him go. He's a grown man, right? He should make his own decisions. You don't control him. On the other hand, you may not want to marry a man who is more interested in playing poker with his guys than hanging with you, but that's another question.
If you are worried that he is cheating, then drop him. If you don't trust him now, you never will.
2006-09-21 14:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... how often? nightly? once a week? month? year?
It sounds like you have a trust issue with this. that maybe he has done some things in the past to make you not really believe he is playing poker when he is 150+ miles away.
You two need to sit down and talk about this openly and honestly. Then you need to decide if you believe/agree/can live with him after that discussion.
If not.. then a wedding is most likely not in your future!
2006-09-21 14:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's your choice to go straight home, i wouldn't have a problem with him playing poker at all. as a amtter in fact you don't you call a friend a go see a movie or something. you're not in jail you're engaged.
Congratulations by the way
2006-09-21 14:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a very big problem because my fiance and i both detest alcholoh and gambling. i refuse to even allow him to dirnk if he is to marry me..especially after marriage he will never drink again if he ever had. and neither of us think gambling is wise..
so if my matthew was doing this---oh buddy it wouldnt be pretty
2006-09-21 14:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best to make him stay at home and happy
2006-09-21 14:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dutchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a problem... But I would have my nights out as well...
2006-09-21 14:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋