u know what kind i mean. i know this girl she made a video, and it was a long time ago. i really liked her before, but now i can't look at her the same way. since we're all known in the neighbourhood and if i ever went out with her, it would be weird since so many people have seen the video,
2006-09-21 07:19:35 · 18 answers · asked by kerr to u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes one time and it wasn't my choice. The boyfriend I had at the time tricked me into it somehow. We were having sex and his friend just walked in the room and he had a video camera. He pretended it wasn't planned, but I knew it was. I told him I didn't want to and was too embarrassed, especially having his friend tape it and see it all. I'm a shy girl so I was mortified, but I went ahead with it and got it over with. I still can't believe I did it. I thought it was going to be for just my boyfriend, but I know he had his friends watch it too. I felt so disgusting after doing it and I have no idea whatever happened to the tape. It's probably on the internet or something knowing my luck. I totally regret doing it and I don't believe I'd ever do it again unless it was with a trusting husband.
2006-09-21 07:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by KittyluvR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Got to admit, time to grow up. People are sexual, despite what the United States government says or better yet FCC. Making a video should be done very cautiously. If you are very open about sex and are mature enough a video is a wonderful tool for your lovemaking with your significant other. Especially the anticipation of it all... watching the video waiting for them to come home... or in long distance relationships. If you have video of past girlfriends, I would suggest destroying them, they didnt expect to NOT be with you and they did not expect you would keep them after wards. Again, the main point is maturity is the key.
2006-09-21 07:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by buccaroooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never made one and I never will. But if you want to be with a girl like this... then you should probably consider yourself done because you want a girl that's going to be there for you and you want a girl that you can probably trust. And if so many people seen the video, she allowed that to happen and she's putting herself out there to get sexual attention whenever needed. If you don't see her the same way, just move on and find a girl you really want. You won't regret it.
2006-09-21 07:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by xindependent_1989x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, twice. Once with my knowing and the other without. Who knows what has happened to those videos, but I sure hope no-one ever throws it in my face. One of the guys, the one who video-taped without my concent, is long gone and I don't know where he is. The other guy, I still have something to do with him, but he says that he has destroyed the video a long time ago. Of course I don't believe him, but what can I do? The bad thing is that I do love this guy and he knows it. The video thing has been since 3 years ago.
2006-09-21 09:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking amateur, just for fun playing around, or commercial porn?
Any more, I'll bet most people have played around with this sort of thing by the time they are into their 20's. Its no big deal, although the fact that it got passed around tells you all you need to know about the risks of making these. In the end, all it shows is that she had sex with someone. Big deal. Not like its a secret, right?
Your girlfriend's past is what it is. The important thing is that she is with you now. Don't blow it by getting all wired about something that happened a long time ago.
2006-09-21 07:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you be judged by your past as well? Could this video been made for home use only but got into the wrong hands like an immature boy passing it around to all his groupies. If you like this girl then let the past go. I'm sure her talents are much more advanced at this pt. lol
2006-09-21 07:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it a professional video, or one made at home? My girlfriend and I made a couple, but we never really watched them. I think we did it for the excitement (at the time). The scary thing is....the camera added about 25 lbs to my bum. LOL.
2006-09-21 07:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care for her, and if she has a forgiving heart toward herself for what she did, then what does it matter. Maybe you can help her get through everything that she is going through. However, I hope that you will not use this girl, and think that she is easy just because she made a "video".
2006-09-21 07:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have made a couple of videos with my man.. We like to watch them too....it's such a turn on...
2006-09-21 07:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i've done some videos. It was with me and my girlfriend in a 69.
2006-09-21 07:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋