feel so frustrated right now, have no self worth problems wich makes me struggle talkin to girls?

Question

never feel good about myself or who iam, which ive had all my life im now 29, theres a few girls ive begun to no on my messenger list, from different sites, and when there online just latley im not talkin to them or they wont talk to me or ill just go off line because i feel disabled unable to speak because i feel so bad about myself, this problem is making me very unhappy, i live in a small flat with hardly any possessions except my comp in a noisy area i dont want to live in.....but to get somewhere nice obviously you got to have money and i recieve benefits, so alot of the time i feel trapped, and i want to go places and do things with my life, but in my dark hole of a flat i cant see me overcoming this and doing these things. and these girls i speak to on messenger or where ever i dont feel worthy of them and im struggling to speak to them or have anythin to say because i feel so bad, 2 of the girls live in houses with their mums and i live in a dark hole small flat feeling lik

feeling like this how can i feel worthy of them or get the confidence i need? ive had alot of trauma in my life and people have destroyed my confidence, how do i come back an feel worthy?

Answer 1

hello,you need some help my friend,go to your doctors today...tell him how you feel and you need help from them.please read this and make one small step in getting well.if people knock you on here f,u,c,k,um!! you need to take care of you.god bless m8 kev uk

Answer 2

i also suggest going to the doctor and telling him/her what you are feeling. It sounds like you are depressed, but not severely depressed, just mildly. I know this because you didn't say a word about thinking of death or killing yourself. The doctor can help in prescribing something that will make you start feeling better in 2-4 weeks....please be patient and wait for it to work. If you don't get the help you need now it will only end up getting worse. Once you are feeling better you will have a more positive outlook on your life and will be able to regain confidence in all aspects of your life...good luck and take care!