I lust for a female to be my first lesbian incounter.. I was raised to believe that never exsisted! I was raised in church and that you'll go to 'h3ll' if u do anything with someone of the same sex.. I jus want to expierence it! I hate keeping it in, but my family will disown me.. All except the few gay ppl I DO have in my family, but see i was never aroudn family my whole life anyway so why should it matter to me! I don't know! I'm jus bi curious and I can't tell anyone cuz My friends will make fun of me and my family will disown me!
Is there anyone to advice me???
2006-09-21 07:02:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOw u ask the question and u advice urself, I mean u know the answer.
2006-09-21 07:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a curiosity thing are you sure it is not a fanstsy thing? I have many fantasies but when i once acted one out it was nothing like i thought at all! i was very disappointed!
It is okay to be curios and if you try this out and it is what feel natural you have to be honest to yourself and then others around you. It will not change you at all and if your family or friends do not except that at least you would have found the true you and can move on and have a content life! go with the gut feeling. there is no harm in experimenting! Good luck!
2006-09-21 07:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, get over this 'hell' myth. Secondly, any family who would 'disown' a child for following her own sexual instincts isn't much of a family to begin with. Finally, if your friends are ignorant enough to make fun of you for this, you need a new set of friends.
2006-09-21 07:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I feel the same way too. I don't want a relationship, because I am happly married. I just bi curious as well.
2006-09-21 07:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by dawnangie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I am not a lesbein but I have had an 'experience' before. It's up to you but if I was you I would do something with one of your close friends that you know won't tell. If there is anyone who you can trust enough
2006-09-21 07:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life...you need to live it for you, not for anyone else...don't wait until you are old and look back with regret on all the things you didn't do, because of what other people might think...
...as long as you aren't harming anyone, live your life as you see fit.
2006-09-21 07:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, try it you may not even enjoy it totally and therefore keep it a secret and yet take it out of your system...
What you do sexually is your business and nobody else's stop fearing all of that ridicule, theres ways of doing things without anyone finding out...
2006-09-21 07:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what you think is right. Life is all about learning, and this may be a step to something bigger in life. and don't let
all these whack jobs-christian-anti-everything billy grahm worshiping goobers could your mind with all that Hell garbage.
Hell is a state of mind. Period.
2006-09-21 07:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a gay club and join.
2006-09-21 07:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want advice... Do it, then keep your mouth shut about it! If the dog don't bark nobody hears it!!
Enjoy yourself!
2006-09-21 07:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Redeft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋