Even though my exboyfriend ended our relationship he would still say hi to me on msn. That has stopped now, but a few days ago he said hi to me after not talking to me for more than 4 months. I was helping my sis pack for Western university and I logged on msn and put "packing for Western" as my msn quote and he said hi to me right away. I was surprised cuz we haven't talked in like forever. Neways after the casual stuff he asked me if I was changing schools and going to Western but I said no and told him it was my sis. After that he didn't say anything so I asked him why he contacted me and he said that it was "cuz he hadn't seen me in awhile". I can't believe him, he dumped me like months ago and now when he thinks I'm going to another university he says hi. What's up with that? How can he have the nerve to still ask me what is going on in my life, and why does he even care?
2006-09-21 06:55:34 · 25 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it the whole you dont know what you got till it's gone concept- he was probably curious- and wanted to make sure the 2 of you were on good terms- that's all- dont read into it- just say hi and shrug it off-
2006-09-21 06:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why just because he stopped screwing you does that mean he has no right to talk to you?
You act as though because he did not wish to stay with you you must be enemies.
Do you always hate the other person when things don't work out?
Maybe he just cares about another human being without having to sleep with them.
Maybe he just wants a booty call.
Maybe your just too caught up in yourself to get over it.
2006-09-21 14:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world are you stressing out over this crap? He saw you on, hadn't spoken to you for awhile and said 'hi' and wanted to catch up. Is that a crime? Is he allowed to be curious after 4 months? Jeez, chill.
2006-09-21 13:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're blowing things way out of perportion. He prolly doesn't know where you stand in life and is trying to be nice. I'd say to tell him that you're not ready to have anything to do with him right now and he needs to leave you alone until you are ready to talk to him again.
2006-09-21 14:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you guys did not work out as a couple he probably hoping you all can still be friends and talk, nothing wrong with having an ex as a bf, most of my ex's are my friends just cause it does not work out as a relationship and he may have hurt you, tell him your feelings nothing wrong with talking, unless you seriousely do not want nothing to do with him, then tell him, and delet him and make sure you put him on ignore, then you will never have to deal with it again! good luck
2006-09-21 14:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it matter? You still like him? I mean, he is just wanting to say HI so leave it like that. DOn't read too much into it. He's probably just curious and its not nerve, its curiousity. He probably still cares for you, things like that don't just change in that amount of time. Don't read too much into, just do what you been doing and live your life.
2006-09-21 13:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be curious and since he saw you come online, he took the opportunity to ask. It could be that he regrets the breakup, or wants you to be doing great, or even the opposite. Guys are strange, so just ask him next time he sends you a message. Be blunt - "Why are you still messaging me?"
2006-09-21 14:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want him to contact you at all, tell him that. When you dont care, completely ignore. He might be just being casual. There is nothing wrong in saying a simple "hi". If you dont want to, dont respond. But you did reply didnt you??
2006-09-21 14:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by noesis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a jerk and got excited thinking you were leaving and going away. Then he wouldn't have to avoid you anymore because you wouldn't be here. You basicly burst his happy bubble. GOOD FOR YOU!! He is a jerk you know? You are better off without him and his sorry self. Blessed be....
2006-09-21 14:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him waste your sweet time just move on without any second thought and try to forget him even though it will be tough on you.He just wants your attention and doesn't want you move on like he has done.He just cant believe that you are not after him anymore.
2006-09-21 14:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by jingirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋