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Ok me and my boyfriend dont hardly ever get along. He doesnt even act like a real boyfriend. He mostly thinks of himself before me. Everyone tells me to break up with him even my family. But heres the thing me and his bestfriend get along sooo great. I mean we would be sooo great together but nether one doesnt know i feel this way. So what should I do? Should I tell his friend or not? My boyfriend doesnt ever take me out, want me to hang out with my friends, dont want to spend time with my family, doesnt ever want to what i want to do, puts me down, u name it and he does it! So what do yall think?

2006-09-21 06:47:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

O and by the way everyone says I dont ever look happy with him. And to tell u the truth I dont know if i love him or not we have been together for 2 years and 4 months.

2006-09-21 06:48:33 · update #1

O another thing i see that your saying that its not right if i mess with his friend. He messed with mine like right as we were getting together and they didnt even know each other

2006-09-21 06:55:02 · update #2

21 answers

Dear, you're a masochist. Do you know what that is? Look it up and then ask yourself why you accept abuse and mistreatment.
You don't need a better boyfriend. You need to find out why you let people treat you badly.

2006-09-21 06:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by lidlolady 2 · 0 0

Hey girl...I know how ya feel. Maybe you should break up with him and just be alone for awhile. Even though it may seem like things would be perfect with you and his best friend....it may not end up that way. Since you've put up with it for this long....you must not mind too much. However, I know it gets old! I'm sure your boyfriend would not appreciate you trying to hook up with his bestfriend and I'm sure it would come back to bite you in the ***. Just be careful and follow your heart! I've been there! Good luck!

2006-09-21 13:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal D 2 · 0 0

You have stuck up with a guy like that for TWO YEARS!!!!!!!!!!! amazing.. You have a lot of patience girl! i must say!! Be true to yourself. Ask yourself if you split with him, how would it affect you?? Honestly, i feel you should let go of this relationship. When you know you are not happy, what on earth are you waiting for? You have a life of your own! Get on with it. And about you getting along well with his best friend.. well thats a catch. If you split with this guy, and then if you go out with his friend, their friendship is bound to get a jolt. So talk it out with his friend. Does he feel the same for you???

2006-09-21 13:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by noesis 2 · 0 0

how can he be a boyfriend if he doesn't take you out or spend time with you. Tell his friend you like him and ignore the so called boyfriend. The first time a guy puts you down should be the last time you speak to him!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-21 13:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by desert_kats 4 · 0 0

So, um, you're basically still w/ your b/f simply b/c you like being w/ his friend, eh? If word of THAT gets out, you're looking at something nasty. May as well break up with your b/f and get that out of the way. And i dont see why you can't remain freinds w/ his friend. But as far as dating his friend...I wouldn't do it b/c that's asking for hell and it's disrespectful to your boyfriend, unless he seriously doesn't give a shet. I'm friends w/ a few of my ex's friends, but I would never date them out of respect for my ex.

2006-09-21 13:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Unfortunately The saying Bro's before Hoe's is pretty accurate .. if it's his best friend it's sincerely doubtful you have a shot at it ... and you dont need advice that tells you to break up with a loser when you already know how much of one he is....

2006-09-21 13:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0 0

You already answered you own question. Forest through the trees sort of thing eh? Move on. Your worth more. Go find the man who knows how to appreciate YOU.

2006-09-21 13:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by smile4u 2 · 0 0

You are asking us what you should do about his friend?? Your crazy glutton for punishment asss need to get out of the so called relationship your in and get a damn grip. You have ALLOWED this man to treat you like sh*t for 2 years and instead of bucking up the balls necessary to get out of the relationship, your asking us should you try to get with his friend... Unf*cking believable.

2006-09-21 13:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0 0

ok, first, dump the guy, he is a control freak and you deserve better...second, i would not pursue his friend, they are friends and that means they have a lot of things in common, he just might treat you the same way and it will cause a lot of problems between them and ultimitly your relationship with that guy...just leave the jerk and find some one who you know away from him

2006-09-21 13:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 0 0

You should break up with him. You shouldn't date his friend thats wrong find someone that isn't a friend of your boyfriends.

2006-09-21 13:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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