Im glad my bf isnt into that stuff, but even if he was I would not allow it
2006-09-21 06:33:28 · 14 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You would not allow it? My goodness you are the presumptuous little thing. We are easch given our own little vessels to conduct across life's pond, and it is not our place to seek to navigate another's course.
2006-09-21 06:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol at "you would not allow it" That's so funny - what would you do? Chain him to you?
Men go to strip clubs. Men read Playboy & Maxim. Men watch porn. Men check out other women. These things are a fact of life with men. Your b/f probably IS into some of that stuff & you probably just don't know it.
Men are wired differently than women - I ain't sayin I like it!! - but they really are more visual & into the visual aspects of all those things mentioned. Whether or not you know it or are aware of it, he most likely does some or all of those things, or has.
2006-09-21 06:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only time I would go to a strip club would be if my GF wanted to go to. Some women like it others don't so It all depends on that factor.
2006-09-21 06:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by omvg1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love going to the strip club with my BF ... it's fun, exciting and I get to see lots and lots of naked women ... they're not gross or nasty ... most of them are well taken care of and clean .. the women are sexy and nice too ( girls bathrooms are usually in the strippers locker room ) ... I don't get hit on by guys and the girls don't bug me for $$$ ... so it's like a free show ... and by the time we make it to the truck we're both soooo freakin' horny we usually don't make it all the way home without some type of sexual pleasure ... lol ... !
After visiting lots and lots of strip clubs ... I would totally trust my man going to one by himself or with a group of guys ... if they're going to cheat ... why pay somebody ... when most girls are out there doing it for free ... !
But hey not all of us women can be understanding and open-minded ... it's all about jealousy and not feeling sexy enough for your man ... get over it ... naked women dancing is like an art ... some of them are so good at it I'm amazed ... it's a workout .. and would love to try it one day .. ( pole dancing that is .. not stripping for money ..lol.. )
2006-09-21 06:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do, it's not that I want to sleep with the strippers, I just like seeing naked women besides the gf. I can't really explain why, I suppose we just like variety, although I wouldn't do anything more than look at them, I'm sure there are many men who go for lap dances, for sexual stimulation. By the way, is it really your place to determine what your bf is allowed and not allowed to do. He can make his own decisions, if you don't agree with it, than break up with him.
2006-09-21 06:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by joe 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I used to dance and most of the men there are married. Looking for entertainment. Most dont consider it cheating because theres no sex or a relationship involved (well...theres not supposed to be). I always go to the club with my bf, we buy each other lap dances...you should loosen up.
2006-09-21 06:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Meme ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a guy thing and it doesn't really bother me as long as I can go see men dance. Compromise goes both ways. Plus most guys don't have a lady at home that is comfortable enough to dance for her man. The only thing I would have a problem with is private dances, but I trust him enough to know that nothing would happen. He goes with his friends if he even goes.
2006-09-21 06:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's fantasy. It's hard to deal with thinking about your boyfriend giving chicks money to dance for them, but no one's allowed to touch the girls - they'll get kicked out.
And you're boyfriend is probably doing this (along with every other man) and not telling you about it.
2006-09-21 06:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
its good fun, theres nothing more boring than doing the same girl week after week.
You 'wouldnt allow it'? You wouldnt know about it, LOL.
2006-09-21 06:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
males are born visual creatures we are looking at girlie mag when we are young teens, lookat porn is a 2nd job to us no matter if you have a girl friend of wife
2006-09-21 06:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋