Wtf is the meaning of life if you're ugly? I want to be loved,to have a gf,make friends,to hang out......do what happy people do
but it's so hard because people won't accept who you are
they even not interested in knowing you.
I walk and talk proudly to show people that they aren't better than me but from inside am really broken ,I tell my friends that one day am going to be a great dentist(am studying dentistry) and have a hot wife and..............
but honestly I don't think am going to be happy because the hot wife will marry my money so I rather sleep with a whore than marring a gold digger who'll destroy my life
what should I do with my fu*ked up life ?
2006-09-21 06:28:36 · 22 answers · asked by James 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wow! Where to begin? First off, seek some professional counselling. The fact that you consider yourself 'ugly' indicates you have low self-esteem. Do not fall into the same belief as superficial people that beauty is skin deep. The true beauty is within! Also, by implying marrying a "hot wife", you are evaluating a person by the same standards as those not accepting you. What about a not-so-hot wife with a wonderful personality that is kind and loving, and willing to accept you for who you are? You are letting these superficial people set the standards by which we live. Prove yourself better than them and break that trend. Find someone like you, that has inner value but struggling for acceptance, and the two of you prove you don't need the values and standards of the superficial!
My 2 cents!
2006-09-21 06:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all... your self-esteem is so in the toilet its not funny... who the hell played so many mind-games with you that you feel this way. There are GREAT CARING women out there who don't give a damn about YOUR money... guess what its the 21st century and women make their own money.. I know I do... usually over the years I have made more per hour/check than hubby.... so that logic should go out the window. Also, seek women who are working instead of worrying how "impressed" your friends are going to be with your "hot" spouse. If that's all your worried about then you deserve to be used for money.... and I don't believe in ever using anyone for any reason.
A person is going to be who they are going to be.... get therapy and don't bring such garbage into a marriage. That is truly not fair to your spouse.
2006-09-21 13:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound to me like your life is ****** up at all. First of all, you have definite goals; you know what you want. That is more than most people have. However, the number one thing to do is not to compare yourself with other people. The truth is, (and I'm sure you've heard this before; but you will realize how true it is as you grow older) WE ARE ALL UNIQUE. WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER IN OUR OWN UNIQUE BEAUTIFUL WAYS.
Don't worry about people who may marry you just for your money. There are shallow people like that; but it sounds to me that you have the insight to see beyond this, and your insight will attract others who also are looking for more than what is on the surface.
Continue to love yourself and build on all the goodness that you have, and you cannot but attract those that love you also.
2006-09-21 13:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no meaning only what you can understand of it. Looks do not mean dating even attractive people have trouble finding people that are not crap.
Calm down and be calm watch others you will see their lifes are not that great either remember preception is reality.
Also people who do not want to know you because of your appearance are in general shallow and will pay in time, sit back and enjoy the show.
Plus you need not be shallow about expecting to marry a 10 also.
2006-09-21 13:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our purpose in life is to worship God. Eccl. 12:13: "The conclusion of the matter, everything having been heard, is: Fear the true God and keep his commandments. For this is the whole obligation of man." This will bring us the most happiness.
The psalmist David also wrote about the incoming new world and how long it would endure. He foretold: “The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it.” (Psalm 37:29) That is why Jesus promised: “Happy are the mild-tempered ones, since they will inherit the earth.”—Matthew 5:5.
What a grand prospect that is, living forever on a paradise earth free from all wickedness, crime, sickness, sorrow, and pain! In the final book of the Bible, God’s prophetic Word summarizes this grand purpose by declaring: “God will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” It adds: “And the One seated on the throne said: ‘Look! I am making all things new.’ Also, he says: ‘Write, because these words are faithful and true.’”—Revelation 21:4, 5.
Yes, God has a grand purpose in mind. It will be a new world of righteousness, an eternal paradise, foretold by the One who can and will do what he promises, for his “words are faithful and true.”
Perfect Health, Everlasting Life.
“No resident will say: ‘I am sick.’”—Isaiah 33:24.
“The gift God gives is everlasting life by Christ Jesus our Lord.”—Romans 6:23.
“Everyone exercising faith in him [will] . . . have everlasting life.”—John 3:16.
“You will be with me in Paradise.”—Luke 23:43.
What a marvelous outlook for the future! What real purpose lives can now have when anchored to the solid hope that in God’s new world all of today’s problems will forever be things of the past! “The former things will not be called to mind, neither will they come up into the heart.” (Isaiah 65:17) And how comforting to know that life then will be eternal: “God will actually swallow up death forever.”—Isaiah 25:8.
Do you want to live forever in that Paradise new world now so near? ‘What would I need to do to get God’s favor at this world’s end and live on into his new world?’ you may ask. You need to do what Jesus indicated in a prayer to God: “This means everlasting life, their taking in knowledge of you, the only true God, and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ.”—John 17:3.
Therefore, obtain a Bible, and confirm what you have read here. Search out others who study and teach these Bible truths. Break free from hypocritical religions that teach and do things contrary to the Bible. Learn how you, along with millions of others who are already doing God’s will, can share in God’s purpose that humans live forever on a paradise earth. And take to heart what God’s inspired Word declares about the near future: “The world is passing away and so is its desire, but he that does the will of God remains forever.”—1 John 2:17.
If you would like further information or a free home Bible study, please contact Jehovah's Witnesses at the local Kingdom Hall. Or visit http://www.watchtower.org
2006-09-21 14:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy Callahan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is there for you! believe it or not, he cares for you and loves you so much that he died in your place. you won't find true happiness until you find God. "Peace i leave with you; my peace i give you. i do not give to you ast he world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
The reason you were created was to have a relationship with God. The Lord of the universe, the one who created everything and controls everything, wants to be YOUR friend. all you have to do is reach out for him, he will meet you!
i hope this helped- always expect a miracle, you are never powerless. :)
2006-09-21 13:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by ajg ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept Jesus Christ:
Galatians 3:27-29 (King James Version)
27For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
28There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.
29And if ye be Christ's, then are ye Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise.
Romans 10:9-13 (King James Version)
9That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
10For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
11For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.
12For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him.
13For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
God doesn't accept people because of beauty, his love is a gift.
2006-09-21 13:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Investigation Specialist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy ppl don't GIVE A SHITE WHAT OTHER PPL REKON, it don't matter if ppl don't accept u, there's always someone who does u just gotta wait for them,
u will be fine, i hope u know to me my first impression of some ppl........... i didn't thionk they were very good looking... BUT THEY ARE AMONGST THE MOST EXTRODINARY PPL I HAVE EVER MET, the physical apperance is bullshite, I DIDN'T ASK TO BE THIS WAY BUT I ESTABLISHED HOW I WANT TO BE...
2006-09-21 13:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the pain like a manly fellow-no one likes a whinger.
2006-09-21 13:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will be hard to figure out the girl that likes you for just you not your money.
2006-09-21 13:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by josh w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋